Tuesday, November 19, 2024

LOVING ONESELF DOES NOT MEAN SELFISHNESS

          


THE PATH TO PERSONAL EXCELLENCE
Loving Yourself And Loving What You Do
Rev. Ronald Knott

 



The first ingredient in really loving oneself is a passionate commitment to personal excellence – to loving who you really are - enough to care about becoming your best self. Really loving oneself does not mean papering oneself, but doing hard things for one’s own good. One of the most critical needs here is the need for a capacity for critical and constructive self-awareness. You must be able to know and understand what makes you tick. You must own your own personal history and heal it if necessary. In short, you must be dedicated first of all to becoming your best as a quality human person. Let me put that another way. (a) You cannot take a loser and ordain him and expect to have an effective priest! If he is not a quality human being to begin with, all you will end up with is a loser priest who can’t relate to people or inspire them to hunger for holiness. (b) You cannot take two losers and put them through a wedding and expect to end up with a happy marriage and effective parents! If they are not quality human beings to begin with, all you will end with is a miserable marriage and disastrous parents!

The second ingredient in really loving oneself is a passionate commitment to vocational excellence – to what you do. In other words, if you are a parent, commit yourself to being the very best parent you can be! If you are married, commit yourself to being the best husband or wife you can be! If you are a priest, commit yourself to be the best priest you can possibly be! Whatever you do, be good at it! If you strive to be the best at what you do, you will get better at it. If you choose the “good enough to get by” path, you will become known for your mediocrity. Without a passionate commitment to vocational excellence, you will no doubt end up being a half-assed priest, a half-assed marriage partner or half-assed parent! The world is already overcrowded with mediocrity – with “half-assedness” - people with no passion for personal or vocational excellence! My mother used to call them “people who merely go through the motions,” “people whose hearts are not in it.” God says to us in Revelations 3:15-16, “Would that you were either cold or hot. So, because you are lukewarm, neither hot nor cold, I will vomit you out of my mouth.” May you be spared from half-assedness!”

May you be the very best version of yourself, a person passionately committed to your own personal and vocational excellence, a person committed to becoming your best self and committed to excellence at what you do!

Sunday, November 17, 2024

I KNOW WHAT IT SAYS, BUT WHAT DOES IT ACTUALLY MEAN?


Jesus said to his disciples: "In those days after that tribulation
the sun will be darkened, and the moon will not give its light,
and the stars will be falling from the sky, and the powers in the
heavens will be shaken.” “But of that day or hour, no one knows,
neither the angels in heaven, nor the Son, but only the Father."
Mark 13:24-32

Every year, when another calendar year begins to wind down in November, we begin to hear readings about “the end of the world” at our weekend Masses ending with the Feast of Christ the King. The very next Sunday after that, we start all over again looking forward to the coming birth of Jesus.

This is also that time of year when fundamentalist Christians come out of the woodwork searching the Scriptures, on their own, looking for clues as to the coming “doom and gloom” as a way to scare people into “shaping up before it’s too late.” 

In spite of Jesus’ admonition that “no one knows” when and how the end of the world will happen, these “fundamentalists” proceed with a conviction of the validity of their own private and literal interpretations of these “end times” texts and preach their conclusions with fervor and furor!

Just the other day, the man who came to my condo to conduct the annual inspection of my furnace, saw an opening in the conversation to talk about his interpretation of texts dealing with “the end times,” “the rapture” and cited how “only 144,000 people will be saved.” He even told me that he had translated the Bible into some native African language! He touted his trust in his own ability to translate the Bible correctly from one language to another – something even many learned Scripture scholars would find too hard to do! I find these “private and literal interpreters of Scripture people” annoying, but when they start announcing to the world that the Bible actually predicts, in their rock-solid certain private interpretation, that one political candidate was predicted to be a “savior of the world” while his opposing political candidate is “the Anti-Christ,” I want to scream to high heavens!

Centuries ago, before the invention of the printing press and before the average person could read or write, there was often only one hand-copied Bible in a Cathedral Church, but no one but the educated could read it. So, “private interpretation” was not a big problem. Many of our pious devotions come from those days when illiteracy was common. (1) The 150 psalms were being sung by literate monks and read by literate clergy, while the illiterate laity were given the full Rosary, with its 150 beads. They could pray mostly repetitious memorized “Hail Marys” while reflecting quietly on the “mysteries” of Christ’s life from memory. (2) Instead of reading the Bible to children, illiterate parents would take their children to church and show them the Bible stories in the sculptures, paintings and stained-glass windows of their churches! Now you know why we have so many statues, paintings and stain glass windows in our churches! 

With the invention of the printing press and its many translations into the evolving national languages, private interpretation with the spin-off of multiple new break-away churches, the Catholic Church resisted the idea of Bible reading in general and the idea of competing private interpretations as a way to stem heresies and the accompanying discord they caused. Instead, they gave us a little book with its approved interpretations of major Scripture texts and their meanings. That little book was what we knew as the “Catechism.” When I attended our parish Catholic School, none of us owned Bibles, we owned a small Baltimore Catechism that told us what the Bible said and more importantly what its major passages meant! Even the priest did not usually preach on the Sunday Bible Readings, but preached on one of the themes in the Baltimore Catechism. One was not encouraged to “read the Bible,” out of fear that “private interpretation” might lead to heresy. One was given the “approved answers to Biblical research” in the Catechism. The message to the faithful was “trust the Church,” but “don’t trust yourself” to understand the Bible! History has proven that there was lot of truth in that!

Take the scary passage in today’s gospel. It talks about “cosmic upheaval:” a darkened sun and moon, falling stars and the heavens being shaken. There are at least three possibilities about the interpretation of that passage. (1) It could be talking about the fall of Jerusalem and the destruction of the temple which did come about in 70 AD! (2) It could be talking about the passion and death of Jesus when “darkness came over the whole land” that the Gospel of Mark describes, which did come about around 32 AD! (3) It could be talking about some future “cosmic chaos” that would accompany some unknown day or hour as a result of the arrival of the end of time. Private interpretation could lead to at least three or more conflicting possibilities. If I believe a passage means one thing and you believe a contradictory meaning, one of us, or both of us, could be wrong!

“Private interpretation,” apart from the help of the church’s teaching authority, can lead to some dangerous, if not strange, conclusions. I know from experience. I kept a newspaper clipping about an incident down in Russell County, Kentucky, when I was working in that area that explains the danger of “private interpretation” of the Bible. A man read in the Bible (Matthew 15:30) that “if your right hand is an occasion of sin to you, cut it off and throw it away” so he took a chainsaw and cut off his right hand! Is that passage to be taken literally or was Jesus using dramatic language of the time about getting to the source of the sin? Committing sin, of course is a decision of the mind apart from the hand itself! The cure is not in the hand, but in the mind and heart where the decision to sin resides!

On the other hand, Jesus said at the Last Supper: “This is my Body and this is my Blood!” Catholics take “is” literally, while Protestants take it to mean, “this is only symbolic of my Body and Blood!” Both can’t be right! Catholics have relied on history, tradition and scholarship to inform us as to what it really means! “Private interpretation” enthusiasts have relied on “private interpretation” as to its “only symbolic” meaning!

There is an old saying that I think applies here. It says, “You always find what you look for!” In Scripture, you can find justification for both compassion and cruelty, judgement and mercy! It depends on what you look for and why one interpretation would be so important to you! Does it justify your already arrived at conclusion or is it what the writer originally meant? The question then is why would you apply such scary literalism to today’s Scripture passage and not another passage that says: “Eye has not seen, nor ear heard, the wonderful things God has is store for those who love him.” and "God is love."?  Is God a God of mercy and compassion or a God of judgment and condemnation, a God of love or a God of hate, a God of unity or a God of division? You can find both in Scripture, so it can end up depending on what the looker is looking for and needs to believe at the time! 

Even today, now that most people are literate in this country, the Catholic Church encourages Bible reading with the guidance of its many good interpretation resources. It is important to remember that the Bible didn’t fall out of the sky nor did Jesus pass out Bibles as instruction books at the Ascension! The Bible is not one book, but a library of smaller books, written over 1,000 years by different people. The Bible as we know it took many years to assemble after the death of Jesus. Like a modern newspaper, which has facts, opinions, humor and advice, one who reads the Bible needs help interpreting which is which! To read it without the help and advice of biblical scholars is to invite all kinds of heresy and chaos into the church! In that case, it is probably better not to go it alone and run the risk of twisting the Word of God to make it mean whatever you want! Help is required and help is available!



 

 

 

 

   

                                                                          

Thursday, November 14, 2024

GOOD NEWS FROM GOD'S "LOST AND FOUND" DEPARTMENT!

 


THE PARABLE OF THE LOST SHEEP
Gospel of Luke 
15:1-7


Now the tax collectors and sinners were all gathering around to hear Jesus. But the Pharisees and the teachers of the law muttered, “This man welcomes sinners and eats with them.”

Then Jesus told them this parable: “Suppose one of you has a hundred sheep and loses one of them. Doesn’t he leave the ninety-nine in the open country and go after the lost sheep until he finds it? And when he finds it, he joyfully puts it on his shoulders and goes home. Then he calls his friends and neighbors together and says, ‘Rejoice with me; I have found my lost sheep.’ I tell you that in the same way there will be more rejoicing in heaven over one sinner who repents than over ninety-nine righteous persons who do not need to repent.

Tuesday, November 12, 2024

A CHRISTMAS GIFT IDEA FOR "AN ENCOURAGING WORD" FANS

Hardly a week goes by that I don't run into someone who brings up to me that they were avid readers of my column, AN ENCOURAGING WORD, in our Archdiocesan weekly newspaper THE RECORD. I wrote weekly for fifteen years. 

Many people told me that they clipped, copied, saved, mailed  and taped them onto their refrigerators. In today's blogpost, I am reminding people that all fifteen years of those AN ENCOURAGING WORD columns are available online in three volumes through Amazon books. 

Maybe you would like to order a set to re-read for yourself or a fan you know as a Christmas present. If so, here is all the information you need to order the three-volume set in time for Christmas! Click on the link below to see all three volumes and how to order them.   



  







Sunday, November 10, 2024

SOMETIMES A LITTLE BIT IS MORE THAN A WHOLE LOT!

 

Jesus sat down opposite the treasury and observed how the crowd put money into the treasury. Many rich people put in large sums. A poor widow also came and put in two small                                                             coins worth a few cents.                                                              Mark 12:38-44

The closest thing today to the Temple in Jerusalem of Jesus’ day - at least in my experience - is a downtown cathedral. Just as the Temple in Jerusalem attracted a host of characters at the time of Jesus, most downtown cathedrals today attract a cross-section of humanity: millionaires and street people, tourists and residents, the non-religious, the marginally religious and religious fanatics. Some are possessed and some are merely obsessed. Like bees to honey, an important religious landmark, be it the Temple or a Cathedral, attracts a human circus. They come to p-r-a-y and to p-r-e-y. Some come to make contact with God and some come to make a few bucks by working the charity system.

For 14 years, from 1983-1997, I had the privilege of being the pastor of the Cathedral of the Assumption in Louisville. From confessions that would curl your hair, to mental cases that would work your nerves, it was, by far, the most interesting pastoral assignment I have ever had, bar none! I had to deal with a strange man who had the urge to take off all his clothes to scare old ladies. I had to pull a drunk off the bishop’s throne. I had to wrestle a stalker to the floor who pulled a knife on me over a homily. I mistakenly called the cops on the archbishop. I have had a man drop dead during a wedding, babies pee on me during baptisms and altar servers vomit on me during Mass. I had to drag a screaming woman from the altar steps to the back door through a wide-eyed congregation, too frozen to move. I was panhandled and manhandled.

In my 14 years, I probably met at our Cathedral most of the types that Jesus met in the Jerusalem Temple, including the poor “widow woman” of today’s gospel. This woman taught me a very important lesson about priesthood.

I was running late for the noon mass. I was going to the back of the Cathedral for something when I was confronted by a “bag lady” coming at me, with both arms waving to get my attention. I was used to it, so used to it, that I thought I “had seen it all” when it came to “street people.” As soon as I spotted her, I just assumed that she wanted money. I had been down that road so many, many times. Before I could get my well-rehearsed “come back later” or “go see our social worker” speech out, she asked excitedly, “Father, where is the poor box? I want to make a donation!” At that she opened her dirty hand and there she clutched her gift of a few nickels and pennies for the “poor box.” I had stereotyped and judged her by her appearance. Her generous “widow’s mite” judged me!

This modern-day version of the “widow and her mite” taught this priest several lessons. (1) You never know what is going on inside the people, merely through external observation, so always “take off your shoes” and approach them as you would “holy ground.” There is nothing as dangerous as a judgmental, “know it all” priest, be he a young priest or an old priest. (2) As Jesus taught the Pharisees, some of the people may have the appearance of saints, but inside are like whitewashed tombs, while some of those who appear to you to be terrible sinners may just turn out to be living saints. “Do not judge, lest you be judged.” (3) Generosity has very little to do with the size of the gift. Many big givers give once in a while from their surplus and blow a horn when they make their gifts, but the ones who really keep parishes going are the many consistent little gifts from people who have to sacrifice to give. When I used to go to parishes to ask for funding for the home missions, I soon found out that I came home with more money when I went to “poor” parishes than when I went to the so called “wealthy” parishes.

In our first reading, the widow of Zarephath, who risked being generous when she herself was close to starvation, is also one of my Biblical heroes. The widow-woman, down to her last handful of meal and a few drops of oil, had to choose between feeding herself and her son or offering hospitality to a traveling holy man. Ignoring her own needs, she chose to be generous. She took that handful of meal and those few drops of oil and made a small cake and gave it to a stranger. For her radical generosity, God rewarded her with bread that never ran out the whole next year.

The woman today has an important lesson to teach us and that is: generosity is always rewarded, and often extravagantly! As Anne Frank, the young Jewish girl from Holland who was forced to live for two years in a secret attic by the Nazis, being caught and ending up dying in a prison camp, wrote during World War II, “No one has ever become poor by giving.” That's what she wrote, but that is what many women have taught me over my lifetime!