It even occurred to me that the word “permanent” is
gradually fading from our vocabulary. It seems that a “permanent” at the beauty
parlor is not all that permanent! It may last a couple of months, at most, and
then you will need another “permanent.”
Everybody knows that “guaranteed for life” really means it will last “a
few years” at most! “Long lasting”
deoderant means you may make it home on a hot day before people start running
from you!
I am not condemning these things. I use many of them and
I find them convenient and time saving. However,
when we live in an “instant,” “disposable” and “throw-away” world, it is bound
to have a downside. Many of us have grown up, used to getting what we want,
right now, and if we don’t get it, we move on to the next thing! I remember President Bush worrying aloud at
the beginning of the war against terror, that we would even tire of that fight
in a short amount of time. It seems that
we have a hard time sticking with anything for a long period of time,
especially when it inconveniences us. As a result of all this, fewer and fewer
of us have an appreciation of things that are truly permanent and lasting. This
seems to be especially true when it comes to commitments, which have too often become
as disposable as a used diaper!
This is certainly not true of the Jewish mother and her
seven sons in our first reading today.
(Unfortunately, we read only a part of a longer story, but we read enough
to get the gist of the story.) This mother and her seven sons chose to endure
torture and death, rather than violate their ancient religious principles, in
their case the law against eating pork!
When the first brother refused, the wicked king cut out his tongue,
scalped him, cut off his hands and his feet, frying him alive in a huge
skillet, right in front of his mother and brothers. The second brother endured
the same tortures and died as his mother and brothers cheered him on! When they approached the third brother, he
stuck out his tongue and hands, before they even asked him. He too died in
front of his mother and brothers. The fourth, fifth and sixth brother died in
the same way. Through all this, their
mother encouraged them to die, rather than renege on their commitments to
God. When the wicked king came to the
youngest, he tried to bribe him with a binding promise to shower him with
money, gifts, friendship and a high office if he would abandon his ancestral religious
principles. When this youngest son paid no attention to his offer, the wicked
king appealed to the mother, urging her to advise the boy to save his life. She
leaned over and whispered to her only son left and encouraged him to accept
death, rather than violate his religious principles. He, too, resisted the king
and was killed in an even more cruel way. Finally, after watching all seven of
her sons massacred before her eyes, the mother was also killed!
In
the chapter before the one we read today, there is the story of the seven young
men’s mentor, Eleazar, who had faced the same cruel fate. Eleazar was a very
old Jewish man who was given the choice of eating pork against the teachings of
his sacred faith or be killed. He could
have saved his life by “going along.” His friends even tried to help him devise
a scheme where he would merely “appear” to eat pork. He made up his mind to
remain loyal to the holy laws of God.
His
reasons are worth quoting directly. “At our age it would be unbecoming to make
such a pretense; many young men would think the ninety-year old Eleazar had
gone over to an alien religion. Should I thus dissimulate for the sake of a
brief moment of life, they would be led astray by me, while I bring shame and
dishonor on my old age. Even if for the time being, I avoid the punishment of
men, I shall never, whether alive or dead,
escape the hands of the Almighty. Therefore, by manfully giving up my
life now, I will prove myself worthy of my old age, and I will leave to the
young a noble example of how to die willingly and generously for the revered
and holy laws.” (II Maccabees 6:24-28)
I love this story! I always have! In a world where
people abandon their commitments at the drop of a hat, often going for the
latest best offer, at the sight of even a slight inconvenience, this story
calls us back to fidelity and reminds us that some things are worth dying for! This
courageous Jewish woman and her seven brave sons stand in contrast to many of
the values of our culture. They can still inspire us and teach us that there is
another way to live besides self-serving expedience. There is the way of
fidelity, even if it does hurt, because some things are worth dying for!
Actually, today’s first reading scares me. What would
I really be able to do if my faith were seriously threatened? Would I be
willing to go back to Guatemala and face certain death, like Father Stanley
Rother of Oklahoma City did to become the Church’s first official US martyr?
Would I be willing to stay on the Titanic and drown with the rest of the people,
instead of getting in a boat when I could and go to safety, as the three priests
on the Titanic did? Would I be willing to volunteer to die of starvation in
place of a married man as the Polish priest Maximilian Kolbe did in a Nazi
prison camp? Would I be able to face torture and death, rather than betray my religious
principles, like Eleazar and the brave mother with her seven sons in our first
reading? I pray that I would, but I hope
that I won’t have to find out just how cowardly I could be!
In conclusion, I have a question for you! What would you be willing to die for?