Tuesday, July 30, 2024
ONCE A MISSIONARY, ALWAYS A MISSIONARY
Tuesday, July 23, 2024
A GOOD FRIEND'S FUNERAL HOMILY
Over the Christmas holidays, a couple of years ago, I got Morgan Freeman and Jack Nicholson. It is about the opportunity to watch the 2007 movie, The Bucket List, starring two terminally ill men on a road trip with a “wish list” of things to do before they “kicked the bucket.” Since I had just officially retired, it struck a chord with me.
In one of my very favorite scenes, they are both sitting on one of the pyramids in Egypt. Morgan Freeman’s character says to Jack Nicholson’s character, “You know the ancient Egyptians had a beautiful belief about death. When their souls got to the entrance to heaven…the gods asked them two questions. Their answer determined whether they were admitted or not. “Have you found joy in your life?” “Has your life brought joy to others?”
When
Faye Thurman asked me to preside and preach at Dick’s funeral Mass today, I
thought these two questions would be two great questions I imagine Dick being
asked when he arrived at the gates of heaven.
“Did you find joy in your life?” “Did your life bring joy to others?”
Jesus, of course, put it this way! Has God’s love for you brought you
happiness? Has God’s love for you inspired you to share that happiness with
others? I am confident that he is able to answer both questions with a
resounding “yes.” I know from talking to him in depth that his life, especially
after he “discovered his new religion,” has certainly brought joy to his life
and, from what I heard around the bed right after he died, his life has
certainly brought joy to the lives of his family and friends! I heard Faye says more than once, “I am going
to miss him so much!” I am sure his children feel the same way! I heard his grandchildren
say, and all verbally agreed, “He was the best grandfather any grandchild ever
had!” How good is that? I got an e-mail from a friend of Faye’s to whom Faye
said about me, “Dick loved Father Ron!” After so many breakfasts, health crises,
prayers shared, support for my projects and laughs together, talking about our
humble beginnings and our Honorary Doctorates from Bellarmine, I can truly say
he brought joy into my life as well. It was great to hear that my life had
enriched his!
What we are talking about here, with those two questions, is the living
out of the Great Commandment. The "great commandment" of Jesus says,
"Love your neighbor as yourself," not "Love
your neighbor rather than yourself!" In other words, if you have no
love for yourself, you will have no love to share with your neighbor! You cannot give anybody else anything, if you
don't have anything to give! As I learned in High School Latin class, "Nemo
dat quod not habet." "If you ain't got it, you can't give
it!" Only those who have joy in their own lives are able to bring joy
into the lives of others. Only those who love themselves can love others. Only
those who know how God’s loves, are inspired to love another, as they are
loved!
Only those who know how God’s loves can love another as they are loved!
How does God love? From 54 years of preaching, I have learned sadly that
many so-called “religious” people don’t know squat about how God loves! That’s
why I picked the story I read from the gospel today. Religious people who don’t
know how God loves, usually mis-name this story. They call it the story of the
Prodigal Son! The better name for it is the story of the Loving Father! The
wayward son is not the hero of this story simply because he shaped up
and came crawling back home. Neither is the uptight and pouting “perfect” son the
hero simply because he stayed home, kept the rules and did what he was
obligated to do! The real hero of this story is that love-crazy father who
loved both of his sons – the one who got down with the pigs and the one
who stayed home and did what was expected of him! You and I are one or the
other of those two sons – either the wayward son who wasted his money on
prostitutes and had to get a job feeding pigs or the self-righteous, uptight,
religious conformist who stayed home but probably wanted, in his heart of
hearts, to do some of the wild things his little brother did while he was gone!
The father in this parable stands for God! In other words, Jesus tells the
people who heard this parable that God is just like the father in this story.
That is why the rejects and marginalized of society flocked to Jesus! He
preached the “good news” of God’s unconditional love! That is why the
religious conformists hated Jesus and had him killed for this kind of talk!
They preached the “bad news” of God’s conditional love, which caused
people to run away from them!
So, who does God love and how does God love? God loves everybody
and he loves everybody, no ands, if or buts about it! No, God does not love the
evil we do, but like a good parent, he doesn’t quit loving us and abandons us when
we do bad things! If the whole Bible was lost except this one story, we would
still have the essence of all that Jesus came to this earth to tell us! The
good and the bad alike are loved by God and we too are called to love each
other, our friends as well as our enemies, as God loves us! Remember
that, because there will be a test at the end of the homily to see if you heard
what this story is teaching us! I believe Dick knew this truth and he would
want you to know it as well!
Dick came into my life toward the end of his life. He admitted that was
not a “religious” man early on, he might have even compared himself to the
prodigal son, but he “discovered” religion when he was faced with kidney
disease. He told me he was inspired by his sister’s faith. He and Faye started coming
to the Cathedral with Jim and Dot Patterson. I remember praying with him for a
“miracle” kidney donor and looking for printed prayers to give him to encourage
him. Friends, our prayers were answered and a ‘miracle” was granted! I received
him into the church and I have been privileged to give him 4 of our 7
sacraments: confirmation, holy eucharist, penance and anointing of the sick! He
was already baptized and married or he would have received all of them except
ordination! We met regularly, talked about spiritual things, shared prayers and
throughout, he took his new catholic faith very seriously! It brought him joy! Yes,
it brought him joy! He brought me joy, as well, watching his spiritual life
take root and grow!
Finally, friends, the parable today, applied to Dick, is this! Just like
the father in that gospel story who loved both his sons, the good one and
the bad one, God love the old Dick and the new Dick. Dick may have
discovered religion at the end of his life, but God had been there all along - loving
him all the time – both while he was away and when he came home! Today, I
can imagine Jesus saying to him these familiar words, “Well done, good and
faithful servant, enter into the joy of your master!” ‘Enter into my joy because
you welcomed that joy into your own life and you passed that joy on into the
life of your family, your friends, your neighbors and your fellow men and
women!’
Congratulations, Dick! You made it across the finish line! Like Faye kept
saying at the hospital, we are really going to miss you, but someday we hope to
see you again! In the meantime, pray for us and we will pray for you! We say
that because he used to say the Creed with us every Sunday when we all professed
together that “we believe in the communion of saints,” which is to say that we
believe in a holy and unbroken connection between the living and the dead!
Finally, let me say this – something I try to say at every funeral.
Friends, if there are any slights, hard feelings or neglect between you and
Dick Thurman or between Dick Thurman and you, let it go! God has forgiven him!
God has forgiven you! He did his best and so did you! He is at peace and so can
you be at peace! Let it go!
Now for the test! So that you won’t flunk, I am going to give you a hint! It’s one word and it begins with an “e!” Here goes!
FATHER KNOTT: Who does God love?
CONGREGATION: Everybody!
FATHER KNOTT: Correct! You get an A+! Now, go love each other as God loves
Dick Thurman and you!
Thursday, July 11, 2024
EVEN THE THOUGHT OF THESE SCENES BREAKS MY HEART
I am sure most of you know of Hurricane Beryl that ripped through the Caribbean Islands of St. Vincent and the Grenadines (where I made 12 trips as a volunteer Caribbean missionary) and caused damage as it made its way all the way up to Texas and beyond.
While the damage in the islands of SVG goes far beyond this blog-post, completely destroying many homes and some churches, I want to focus mainly on two small churches on two islands where I had led an effort to provide several improvements. At least two churches were completely destroyed in the recent Hurricane Beyl and the other was destroyed in a volcano eruption on St. Vincent in 2021. Other destroyed or damaged churches, school roofs and homes we helped update are not included in this post.
At least two churches, maybe three, were outfitted with red chairs that had come out of our Louisville Cathedral as part of a major renovation of island churches: chairs, new ceiling fans, liturgical equipment and, in one case a new fence, gate and floor make-over.
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PRE-HURRICANE BERYL
Immaculate Conception Church on Mayreau Island is part of a three-island parish cluster called Holy Family Parish. The other two churches are Our Lady of the Assumption on Canouan Island and St. Joseph Church on Union Island.
PRE-VOLCANO
Tuesday, June 25, 2024
CRICTICAL and COMMITTED
He had a beard, so he can't be all bad. But in spite of his beard, John the Baptist has never been one of my favorite saints. Screaming men who wear fur and eat bugs make me very nervous. They are not the type of person you could sit out on the deck and have a beer with. Before you open the can, they would be giving you a lecture on the evils of drinking.
Since I have gotten older and wiser; I have begun to appreciate John a little more. In fact, maybe he could be a role model for today's American Catholic. John the Baptist stands out as a believer who is both critical and committed, the two essential ingredients most needed in today's church. He, above all, seems to have found a balance between those two poles.
As our church continues to undergo massive transformation, the tension between the left and the right continues to produce anxiety in the hearts of believers everywhere. It seems that zealots at both ends of the spectrum are claiming to own the truth. Somehow, we must cooperate and give up our competition, separatism, and fragments of the truth. Maybe John the Baptist can teach us to ignore zealots of every stripe and listen to the less shrill voices of reason and joy. Maybe we can find some common ground between the hypercritical and the blindly committed. Maybe John can teach us to be both critical and committed.
Criticism, without commitment, is cruelty. There is a growing number of Catholic people who have moved to the edges or left the church altogether to take potshots at the church from their safe positions of smug superiority. They have their well-documented lists of flaws and sins to justify their withdrawal from active church life and are willing to point them out on cue. They are like the people who look at a thorny bush with a single flower and see a thornbush rather than a rosebush. Behind their superior attitude is a belief that others are responsible for the health of the church, and they will not grace the church with their presence until it conforms to their point of view.
Just as dangerous are those who are committed without being critical. Even Pope John Paul II, when he was still Cardinal Wojtyla, wrote in 1969: “Conformism means the death of any community; a loyal opposition is a necessity in any community.” Blind commitment without question is also unhealthy for the church. There are those among us who would have us believe that anything our leaders say or do should be followed without question, without hesitation. Sometimes, the church's best friends are those who criticize it.
Criticism without commitment is cruelty. Commitment
without criticism is lazy, sentimental, and infantile. What is needed is the
spirit of John the Baptist. He was both critical and committed. What we really
need today is people who care enough and love enough to raise some questions.
We need committed people who are willing, in the words of Saint Paul, to
"profess the truth in love" (Ephesians 4:15). Those who drop out and
attack from the outside are no help.
Those who stay and bury their heads in blind conformity are dangerous
and destructive. What we need are people who are committed but vigilant and
attentive, knowing in their hearts that this old church requires, in the words
of Pope Paul VI, “that continual reformation of which she always has need.”
Tuesday, June 11, 2024
A SPECIAL CELEBRATION AT THE LITTLE SISTERS OF THE POOR
Sister Julie's Family and Relatives
LITTLE SISTERS OF THE POOR
“Sister Julie’s 25th Jubilee”
Rev. Ronald Knott
June 8, 2024
Over the Christmas holidays, a couple of years ago, I got the opportunity to watch the 2007 movie, The Bucket List, starring Morgan Freeman and Jack Nicholson. It is about two terminally ill men on a road trip with a “wish list” of things to do before they “kicked the bucket.” Since I had just officially retired, it struck a chord with me.
In one of my very favorite scenes, they are both sitting on one of the pyramids in Egypt. Morgan Freeman’s character says to Jack Nicholson’s character, “You know the ancient Egyptians had a beautiful belief about death. When their souls got to the entrance to heaven…the gods asked them two questions. Their answer determined whether they were admitted or not. “Have you found joy in your life?” “Has your life brought joy to others?”
When
Sister Julie asked me to preach today, I thought these two questions would be
two great questions to propose to her as she reflected on her first 25 years as
a Little Sister of the Poor! “Have I found joy in my life?” “Has my life
brought joy to others?” Jesus, of course, put it this way! Has God’s love for
me brought me happiness? Has God’s love for me inspired me to bring happiness
to others? I am confident that she is able to answer both questions with a
resounding “yes.” Her life as a Little Sister of the Poor has certainly brought
joy to her life and her life as a Little Sister of the Poor has certainly
brought joy to the lives of those she has served!
What we are talking about here basically is Sister Julie’s living out of
the Great Commandment. The "great commandment" of Jesus says,
"Love your neighbor as yourself," not "Love
your neighbor rather than yourself!" In other words, if you have no
love for yourself, you will have no love to share with your neighbor! You
cannot give anybody else anything, if you don't have anything to give! As I
learned in High School Latin class, "Nemo dat quod not habet."
"If you ain't got it, you can't give it!" Only those who know God’s
love can love another as they are loved!
To love oneself, one has to be dedicated to wholeness of "mind, body
and spirit." We can also call it being dedicated to one’s "education,
health and spirituality." Whichever words you prefer, the task is to fill
your mind with truth, fill your body with a balance of healthy food and
exercise and fill your spirit with help from your "higher
power." If you "fall in love" with pursing those three
things in your own life, you will have an abundance of love to give to others.
Sir Ranulph Fiennes makes a great point when he said, “There is no such thing as “bad weather,” just “inappropriate clothing.” We can complain about the weather or how bad the world is, but it comes down to us taking the necessary personal precautions to survive and thrive in the world as it is! If it's cold, we wear a coat and hat! If it is weak, crooked and selfish, then we make sure we are personally strong, honest and communally focused! If the world is filled with ignorant, unhealthy and materialistic people, then we make sure we are individually educated, healthy and spiritually sound!
Alexis de Tocqueville was so right when he said this about personal responsibility and how it affects the society we live in when he said something like this: ‘A nation cannot remain strong when every citizen belonging to it is individually weak; just as no religious community, family, marriage or parish can be strong if it is totally made up of cowardly and enfeebled individuals.’
Taking personal responsibility is what it means to “love oneself.” That is part of the great commandment, the part that brought joy into the life of Sister Julie. However, that is only half of the Great Commandment. The other half is to “love your neighbor” – in other words to being competent in “bringing joy into the life of others.”
When I preached recently about the Good Shepherd, I noted that there were two possible words for “good” in the Greek text – agathos and kalos. Agathos means “good” as in “holy,” but that is not the word used for a “good shepherd.” The words used there is kalos, meaning “good” as in “good at something” – “competent”, if you will!
Sister Julie did not become a Little Sister of the Poor to merely bring herself joy. She became a Little Sister of the Poor to bring joy to the lives of others. To do that, she needed to become “agathos” and “kalos” – personally “good” and “competent at serving” the elderly poor! Just as no community like the Little Sisters of the Poor can be successful in its mission of service to the elderly poor if every Sister in it is personally weak and incompetent. Each member needs to be both “good” and “good at it.” Being a member of this community should bring joy to each individual member and each member of this community should bring joy to the lives of every other member. It’s that simple and it’s that hard! Being personally “good” and “good at what she does” is what we celebrate today in the life of Mother Provincial, Julie!
With the help of Tim Schoenbachler, I wrote the lyrics of this hymn last year for the Feast of Saint Jeanne Jugan, Foundress of the Little Sisters of the Poor. We sang it as a Post-Communion hymn at the Anniversary Mass.





