Saturday, May 17, 2025

"YOU JUST CAN'T MAKE THIS STUFF UP" 2025 #20

                               

                 Below I am standing (with a beard in the early 1970s) close to the same area where the bell  
                                                        tower at Taize as it is today (above).  

                              

MY EUROPEAN TRAVEL ON A FEW DOLLARS
Part Two 

Between 1971 and 1976, I made 5 back-packing trips to Europe with students from Somerset Community College in Somerset, Kentucky, where my first assignment was as a newly ordained priest. Ignorant of how risky and challenging it might be to be responsible for young adults who had never been out of Kentucky, I managed to accompany small groups of from 5 - 10 at a time. After landing in Paris, we always made our way south to Taize, France, where 1,500 youth a week from all over the world would gather for a week-long retreat while camping in the open fields around the tiny town of Taize. Taize was the location of the ecumenical monastery of Protestant, Catholic and Orthodox monks half-way between Paris and Lyon, about two miles from the ancient ruins of the famous Catholic monastery of Cluny. In this second of two blogposts, I will report a few of the odd experiences we "enjoyed" during those trips. 

When our week-long retreat was over we would drive through Switzerland, northern Italy, Austria, Germany, Luxemburg, Holland, Belgium and back to France  for our trip home. On one trip we crossed the border into Spain for an hour so so just so we could say we were in Spain.  

There were two times in Switzerland when 2 of us were forced to sleep in a tent and 4 of us were forced  to sleep in a car because of the rain. Otherwise, we would have slept outside on the ground. Both times, the rain was drizzling most of the night which caused the inside of the tent and inside the car to create a seal to the point that it woke us up in a panic because we had breathed up all the oxygen. In the tent, up a mountainside, we woke up so panicked that we practically tore the zipper off on the front of the tent trying to get out to breathe! In the car, on a side road, four of us in sleeping bags woke up at the same time, opened all four doors and rolled out on the wet ground in our sleeping bags, trying to breathe. 

There was a time in Switzerland when we pulled off the road in an orchard and found what we thought was a safe place to sleep. About the time we all dozed off, I was awakened by a crunching noise about a foot from my head. Startled, I looked up to see a car tire rolling past my head. We all started screaming which caused the car to stop. It was another car with a young man also looking for a place to sleep in the orchard. We all got up, introduced ourselves and became instant friends. He had one of those cheap French cars out of which he had taken all the seats except the drivers seat. He tried to convince us to go with him to Spain, (probably to share gasoline expenses) but we said "no" because we were going in the opposite direction - to Austria. After a bit of negotiation, and a bit skeptical about getting in a car with no seats with a stranger, we agreed to go with him to the next town for a beer. He drove the car and the three of us sat on the floor of his seatless car, seated so low we could not see out of the windows. We had a beer with him, he brought us back to the orchard, wished him well and sent him on his way to Spain. 

It seemed that every young adult in Europe was hitch-hiking during the summer. You could see them everywhere. We had heard that it was safe to pick up hitch-hikers back then because youth jobs were scarce and so parents gave their young adult kids a couple of hundred dollars and told them to "go see Europe!" One of those summers, when there was only three of us in the car, we always picked up a hitch-hiker to fill the empty seat and get to know some of them in the process.  I remember picking up a young man from Scotland in southern Germany. He was headed to Holland and we were going half-way there so we took him as far as we could. When it came time to get in our sleeping bags, he insisted sleeping in the trunk. I did not like the idea, but he insisted that we help him into his sleeping bag and lifting him into the trunk and shut the door. About an hour after we put him in the trunk and got into our sleeping bags for the night in the the car, I was awakened by a sound that sounded like scratching coming from the trunk. I immediately concluded that our friend from Scotland had been overcome with fumes from the gas tank and was scratching to be let out before he died! I work everybody up, got out of my sleeping bag and opened the trunk, fearing to see a dead Scotsman right there in a sleeping bag! What I actually saw a grinning Scotsman eating a green apple that we had taken to bed with him if he got hungry during the night! Relieved, we slammed the trunk and went back to bed! 

I remember one very embarrassing moment in Austria. We met a hitchhiker not far from the area where we picked him up. He invited us to his house for a bite to eat. When we sat down, his mother put a plate of "speck" in front of us. "Speck" is a fatty salted bacon, air-cured, lightly smoked, but uncooked! I later learned that it was a delicacy in that part of the world. I took a piece of speck and put in between a slice of her delicious rye bread and bit into it. It was like biting into a slab of uncooked bacon. The rawness made a crunch that I knew I would not get down my throat. When the host left the room, I pulled it out and put the "speck" in my pocket to get rid of later. The bread however was delicious! When she came back into the room, I went on about how delicious the bread was, but never mentioned the "speck!" 

My experience in northern Italy was the very opposite. We stopped to visit an Italian student that we had met in Taize. His mother served us coffee and the most delicious little pastries I has ever eaten. I tried to wait till she left the room to "go back for more" so as not to appear piggish. She must have noticed how many we ate because when we got ready to leave, she boxed up the rest of them to take with us. I was thrilled with the news, so thrilled that after we got in the car and had driven out of sight, I stopped the car and finished off the rest of them right then and there! After a few weeks of camping out and eating so minimally, I was absolutely ravenous! 

As you can imagine, traveling in Europe under such conditions can wear on one's nerves. I remember one evening, after driving north for three hours when we should have been driving south for three hours because the student I was in the car with simply could not read a map! We were on the Autobahn in German, which can fray one's nerves in the best of times, and we had quit speaking to each other. We stopped at a roadside restaurant with only a small amount of cash with us and had no chance to cash travelers checks. It was cold and rainy on top of the coldish atmosphere between us. When we received our menus, we knew we would have to get something cheap - like a hot dog! We did not know what kind of "wursts" we were ordering so we went by the prices. We ordered in silence. He ordered one type and I ordered another. When the waitress brought out our plates and sat them down in front of us, he had two "wursts" that were thin as pencils and about eight inch long and I had two "wursts" about an inch thick and about four inches long. We both sat there staring at our plates for a a while, looked at each other, and burst out in outrageous laughter! 

At the end of my fifth and final trip to Taize, I was what was called "over it!" I knew that I never wanted to do that kind of traveling ever again! In the airport in Paris, right before getting on the plane, I took all my clothes out of my backpack and threw all of them in the garage can. I looked around the airport till I found a local young man who had just gotten off a plane. I went up to him and asked, "How you you like a newish backpack and tent? I am going home and I never want to see them ever again!" He was delighted and so was I!!!!!


Three, of the four of us from Somerset, Kentucky, somewhere in Europe in our leased car after Taize. That's me with the beard! 


Thursday, May 15, 2025

55 YEARS AND COUNTING: "....AND SOME SAID I WOULDN'T MAKE IT!"

ORDINATION DAY - MAY 16, 1970

Cathedral of the Assumption, Louisville, Kentucky 

DRESSED AND READY TO GO BE ORDAINED


A QUIET MOMENT BEFORE GOING INTO THE CATHEDRAL TO BE ORDAINED


KNEELING BEFORE ARCHBISHOP McDONOUGH HAVING MY HANDS ANOINTED IMMEDIATELY AFTER BEING ORDAINED A PRIEST 


FIRST MASS DAY - MAY 17, 1970 
Rhodelia, Kentucky


SAINT THERESA CHURCH - MY HOME PARISH


SUMMARY OF THE LAST FIFTY-FIVE YEARS
"Once a Missionary, Always a Missionary"

Father J. Ronald Knott was ordained May 16, 1970. After ordination, he earned a Doctor of Ministry degree in “Parish Revitalization” from McCormick (Presbyterian) Seminary in Chicago. He has served the Archdiocese of Louisville as a home missionary, college teacher, campus minister, pastor, cathedral rector, traveling evangelist, homiletics instructor and archdiocesan vocation director. He has presented over 80 parish missions and retreats in five states. He was a weekly columnist for The Record for 15 years. He served as a weekend Campus Minister at Bellarmine University for many years. He has led more than 100 presbyteral convocations in 10 countries and addressed the USCCB. He has authored over 30 books, some of them have been translated into Spanish, Vietnamese and Swahili. Father Knott was the founder of the Saint Meinrad Institute for Priests and Presbyterates while serving as a seminary staff member for 10 years. In retirement, he served in the Caribbean Missions for several years, mainly in St. Vincent and the Grenadines, and addressed the bishops of the Antilles Bishops Conference in Trinidad. In his home parish, he founded the Saint Theresa Heritage Partners in 2021 that led to building its new Family Life Center and Guest House. He continues to help in parishes and celebrate Masses at the Little Sisters of the Poor’s Home and the Louisville Ursuline Retirement Community at Twinbrook. He is presently sponsoring a seminarian in Tanzania and is involved in building a new St. Veronica Church in Kenya. He blogs every other day on a blog named An Encouraging Word found at FatherKnott.com.

FINAL RESTING PLACE 
St. Theresa Cemetery, Rhodelia, Kentucky 


READY FOR A FINAL DATE TO BE ADDED

Tuesday, May 13, 2025

THE MARGINAL, THE LEFT-OUT, THE REJECTED AND THE HURTING

 

Pope Leo XIV

"Simply Amazed - Forever Grateful" is carved at the top of my already-installed tombstone. I composed it a few years ago to sum up my life so far. Those are the words that came to mind as I began to realize the implications of what was happening as I watched the TV as they announced the name of our new Pope. The election of Pope Leo XIV will forever add an important event in my growing list of  life experiences that drove me to come up with those words as a summary of how I felt about my life. Yes, I am simply amazed and forever grateful for Pope Leo's election! 

Why am I amazed and grateful? Even though It makes me proud, it is not because he is American born. It is because his election has seriously validated my own ministry in the last fifty-five years and given me hope and enthusiasm again that I thought was beginning to wane within me. 

What do I mean "his election has seriously validated my ministry?"  I have often described myself as "Consciously Christian, Deliberately Catholic and Unapologetically Ecumenical and Inter-Faith." I even did many Parish Missions by that name.  I think today that is some of what Pope Leo XIV is going to be about as he takes Pope Francis' vision to the next level. Once again, we as a church have been given a dynamic inspirational moral leader and this country has been given a dynamic alternative to the immoral, corrupt and mean-spirited fumes that have been breathing in lately. Pope Leo is "An American like no other American," as the Italians are saying. We now have two highly visible American world leaders, side-by-side, presenting opposing options for us to choose from when it comes to us building our futures. 

What do I mean "his election has seriously validated my ministry?"  Secondly, I have been reaching out to, and writing about, marginal, left-out, excluded, rejected and hurting Catholics and various members of other faiths from the the very beginning of my ministry as a priest. I have listed some of them further on in this post, but  the fact is I was doing that ministry most visibly at the Cathedral of the Assumption starting 30 years before Pope Francis was elected. As Pope Leo said on the balcony in his first speech, "God loves all people - unconditionally." I was saying this to the growing congregation of our Cathedral for years, "God loves everybody - no ands, ifs or buts about it!" Because of that message, we earned the nickname "The Island of Misfit Toys" because people were reminded of the children's film, "Rudolf, the Red-Nosed Reindeer" where broken toys could go to be repaired so that they too could be part of Christmas! 

What do I mean "his election has seriously validated my ministry?"  Here is a short list of some of my involvement in ministry to the marginal, left-out, excluded, rejected and hurting Catholics, as well as various members of other faiths - all those who God loves unconditionally and all those we are called to love unconditionally as well! 

(1) When I was in major seminarian, I chose a Disciple of Christ history professor on the seminary faculty to be my advisor/spiritual director, while choosing a priest-monk as a confessor. 

(2) I was first given an opportunity to learn to preach by the United Church of Christ in 1968 when I became one of the first two Catholic seminarians to join their Christian Ministry in the National Parks program and was assigned to preach in Crater Lake National Park in Oregon. 

(3) After ordination, I accepted an assignment in the "home missions" of our diocese. I started an interfaith campus ministry program at Somerset Community College called IF - for INTER-FAITH. I volunteered to do interfaith services at Lake Cumberland Boys Camp for juvenal delinquents and took students of various religious backgrounds, most of whom had never been out of Kentucky, to France on five backpacking trips to the ecumenical monastery in Taize. I opened a used clothing and household items store for the poor called "Clothes 'n Stuff." I preached in several Protestant churches, a baccalaureate service at an all non-Catholic high school three years in a row and had an interfaith radio program on Sundays called "Morning Has Broken" for a few years. 

(5) After ordination, I earned my doctorate in 1980 from McCormick (Presbyterian) Seminary in Chicago in "Parish Revitalization." My doctoral thesis was entitled "Strangers in Town: How One Roman Catholic Mission Church Dealt With Environments (internal weakness and rejection from the outside)" 

(5) At the Cathedral, I led a congregation that grew from 110 to 2100 members by specializing in reaching out to marginal, left-out, excluded, rejected and hurting Catholics. I was co-founder of the Cathedral Heritage Foundation (later called Center for Interfaith Relations) that still exists today. We built a new kitchen for the homeless, supported St. John Day Center for the the Homeless and sponsored an annual Dessert Festival to help house AIDS patients when AIDS was first discovered. 

(6) For 15 years, I wrote a weekly column in our diocesan newspaper, THE RECORD, called "An Encouraged" directed at discouraged, rejected, left-out and marginalized people, especially hurting Catholics. 

(7) While I was a weekend campus minister at Bellarmine University, I offered an annual "Blue Christmas Mass" for several years for the grieving - those who had lost loved ones, but could not identify with the normal happy Christmas Masses offered in their parishes.

(8) While a seminary staff member at St. Meinrad, I annually hosted a Thanksgiving dinner for "those left behind" - the international seminarians studying at that seminary who could  not go home to their families. I started a program there called "World Priest" that helped immigrant priests adjust to American culture and serve in American parishes. I bought them clothes, helped them with spending money and made sure they could afford class trips. 

(9) After retirement, I volunteered to work in the Caribbean Missions, making 12 trips and raising over $1,250.000.00 in financial aid, especially to the Diocese of Kingstown in the poor country of St. Vincent and the Grenadines.  

(10) I raised the awareness of my small hometown parish of its connection to 19th century slavery, honored all 222 of our enslaved members in a museum room in a totally renovated closed school that I turned into a rural eco-friendly family life center and restored the tombstone of Father Augustus Tolton's enslaved grandmother, Matilda. Father Tolton is the United States' first slave-to-priest who is up for canonization. Father Tolton's enslaved mother, Martha Jane, was baptized and confirmed in my home parish. Because of these efforts, 35 bishops came to visit the grave of Father Tolton's grandmother last Fall. 

(11) Recently, I have been involved in the missions of west Africa by agreeing to sponsor a Tanzanian seminarian, helping a family add to their house and raising the funds to build a new stone St. Veronica Church, and furnishing it, in Kenya. 

Yes, I feel deeply that the election of Pope Leo XIV has validated my fifty-five years of ministry at a time when I thought the Cardinals might elect a Pope who would try to take us back to some imagined "good old days." His election has made me feel that maybe I have not been blind, deaf and dumb all these years after all! Along with Pope Leo, we old missionaries like to say, "Once a missionary, always a missionary!"  He will no doubt, like Pope Francis, continue to "Make the Church Outward Looking Again."     


Monday, May 12, 2025

GONE, BUT CERTAINLY NOT FORGOTTEN

 MARY ETHEL MATTINGLY KNOTT

Taken at my First Mass       May 17, 1970

September 10, 1917 - May 12, 1976

My mother died 49 years ago today. She died of breast cancer at a little over 58 years old. I was the second of her seven children, not counting a miscarriage. I was holding her hand when she died. 

We were very close, mostly because we both almost died in her giving me birth. I was born at home, delivered by my paternal grandmother and baptized right there in the bed where I was born by this country midwife grandmother. We cried together when I was born. She cried every time I came home from the seminary. We cried together, walking back to the hotel, when the doctors in Dallas, Texas, told us she had breast cancer. She cried when I was ordained and said my first Mass. We both cried when I anointed her in our living room as she left for the hospital for the final time. I cried when she died, at her funeral Mass and when we left her body in the cemetery. 

I always wanted to do something to memorialize her, but I could never afford it when she was alive. Forty-one years after her death, I got the chance. I was able to build a "prayer garden" at Saint Meinrad's Monte Cassino Shrine where I went to the seminary for six years and where I worked as a staff member for ten years. I included my brother, Mark, because I wanted to honor him as well. If you are ever at St. Meinrad, go up the hill to Monte Cassino and visit her "prayer garden" and say a prayer for her! 

Mom, I Still Love You! May You Rest in Peace!





Sunday, May 11, 2025

NO PERFECT CHURCH, NO PERFECT POPE

 

On the sabbath Paul and Barnabas entered the synagogue and took their seats. Many Jews and worshipers who were converts to Judaism followed Paul and Barnabas, who spoke to them and urged them to remain faithful to the grace of God. On the following sabbath almost the whole city gathered to hear the word of the Lord.

Acts 13:14, 43-52

Hardly an Easter goes by that I don’t remember family “picture taking” from childhood, especially on Easter Sunday morning when we were all decked out in our finest new “Easter clothes.” Back then we got new clothes twice a year – when school started and Easter – so it was a big deal.

In those days, people would never think of going to church without being all dressed up. Most women wore hats and gloves and carried purses.  Most men wore coats and ties. Boys wore ironed shirts, shiny shoes and even ties sometimes. Girls wore dresses and hats and carried purses.

On Easter, however, we went all out. There are innumerable photos in our family album to prove it. I especially remember my brother and I all lined up, with and without our Easter baskets, looking very frozen in uncomfortable shoes, bow ties and slickly combed hair. It seemed that we took turns taking pictures of each other – often Mom and the girls in one picture and Dad and the boys in another. We were always smiling, even if it looked forced sometimes. Our clothes were always pressed with an iron.  Our hair was always combed. We always stood there smiling into a blazing sun and trying to look our very best.

It is what the pictures didn’t show that is worth mentioning today. We have no shots of the screaming, yelling and name-calling that went into getting ready. We have no shots of my Dad in one of his rages. We had no shots of my mother, looking haggard and worn, late at night, ironing all those clothes by hand for six kids, herself and my Dad who never did learn how to take care of his own clothes. We have no shots of any of the pain and struggles that we went through as a family back then. If you just look at our Easter snapshots, you would think we were the Walton’s on “mood altering drugs!” Snapshots never tell the whole story! They are only “snapshots” – moments in time!

Such in the case of one of the passages at the beginning of The Acts of the Apostles (Acts 2:32-35) where it says, The community of believers was of one heart and mind.” It is one snapshot of the church during its infancy. If you read only that passage, by itself, you would have to conclude that the church has gone to hell in a hand basket since then! In reality, it is like the “Easter pictures” of my childhood.  It only tells part of the truth. 

The Cardinals of the Church have just gathered and elected Pope Leo XIV - a surprise gift from God! I am ecstatic!  However, the readings today give me a good opportunity to talk about the fact that, like your family and mine, there is no perfect church or no perfect Pope. I believe he will do extremely well serving the needs of the church and world today, but we all have our good days and we all have our bad days, but with love and forgiveness we will manage, with God's grace, to keep going into the future. 

In the beginning, the church did have some days when its members seemed to be “of one heart and one mind,” some days when “many signs and wonders were done,” and some days when “they enjoyed the favor of all the people.” If we just read this one reading and looked around the church today, we would have to conclude that the church’s original luster and beauty has indeed faded. However, if you continued to read on in the Gospels and the Acts of the Apostles, you would start reading what Paul Harvey called “the rest of the story” and the “rest of the story” would sound very much like the church today.

Thank God that "the rest of the story" stories are included in the Scriptures. It helps us not to idealize the church in its beginnings and be discouraged by its weaknesses today. 

In previous Eater gospels, we read about the doubt of Thomas who refused to believe until he saw and touched Jesus' wounds personally. We read about a bunch of people walking away from Jesus because they could not believe his teaching on being the "bread of life." We read about some of Jesus' family who showed up while he was preaching to take him home because they thought he was "out of his mind." We read about James and John, the "climbers," who made a move behind the other apostles' back to get the best positions in Jesus' new kingdom. Then there is the betrayal of Judas, the denial of Peter and the total abandonment by all the apostles at the crucifixion except John and some women. 

If we kept on reading the Acts of the Apostles reading today, we would quickly read about Ananias, and his wife Sapphira, who made a pledge to give the proceeds of the sale of some of their property to the church.  Later, with his wife knowledge, they held back part of the pledge and even lied about it.  Caught in the lie, they both dropped dead. If we kept reading, we would read about the future Saint Paul hunting down Christians and having them killed and even holding the coats of those who stoned St. Stephen to death. Today we read about Paul and Barnabas, two of the greatest and most effective missionaries in the early church, converting huge numbers of people and whole cities turning out to hear them preach. If we kept reading, we would read about Paul and Barnabas clashing over giving a fellow missionary a second chance, and having such a falling out that they could not work together and having to go their separate ways. If we kept reading, we would read about Peter acting one way around Jewish believers and another way around Gentile believers, resulting in his being called “two-faced” by Paul. If we kept reading, we would hear about Greek and Jewish widows arguing over their fair share and apostles with “too much to do.”

There are many beautiful snapshots of the early Church in the Acts of the Apostles, but they are balanced by some snapshots of the ugly side of the early church as well.  Just as Jesus was fully human and fully divine at the same time, his body, the church, may be of divine origin, but it is also full of real human beings and human weaknesses!  In spite of this, Jesus has promised to be with the church till the end of time and has promised that even the power of hell shall not prevail against it. Therefore, hang in there and hang on! If the church was supposed to be perfect, we would never have been invited to join - and, with us in it, it would no longer be perfect, would it?