Thursday, April 10, 2025

THE SIN OF PROJECTION

 

                            GIVEN AT LITTLE SISTERS OF THE POOR HOME 4-7-2027

When the old men saw her enter every day for her walk, they began to lust for her. They suppressed their consciences; they would not allow their eyes to look to heaven, and did not keep in mind just judgments.

Daniel 13: 1-9, 15-17, 19-30, 33-62


Projection, in a psychological sense, refers to the act of attributing one's own thoughts, feelings, or motives to another person. In a biblical context, projection can be understood as a form of self-deception or misjudgment, where individuals may ascribe their own faults or intentions to others, often leading to misunderstanding and conflict.

While the Bible does not explicitly use the term "projection," the concept can be seen in various narratives and teachings. One notable example is found in our first reading today. Two old men, who were officially judges of other people, used to visit the house of the rich man Joakim and his wife Susanna. They noticed that Susanna liked to walk in the garden alone every day. After lusting after her and her refusal to give into them, they project their own sins onto her and accuse her of adultery. The story ends with them being trapped in their own lies.

Projection can lead to false judgments and accusations, which are cautioned against in Scripture. Jesus teaches about the dangers of judging others without self-reflection: "Why do you look at the speck in your brother’s eye, but fail to notice the beam in your own eye?" (Matthew 7:3). This teaching underscores the importance of self-awareness and humility, encouraging believers to examine their own hearts before casting judgment on others.

Projection is closely related to self-deception, where individuals fail to recognize their own faults. Jeremiah 17:9 states, "The heart is deceitful above all things and beyond cure. Who can understand it?" This verse highlights the human tendency to deceive oneself, which can manifest as projection.

Projection often leads to hypocrisy, where individuals criticize others for faults they themselves possess. Jesus warns against this behavior, particularly among religious leaders, as seen in Matthew 23:27-28 : "Woe to you, scribes and Pharisees, you hypocrites! You are like whitewashed tombs, which look beautiful on the outside but on the inside are full of dead men’s bones and every kind of impurity."

While the Bible does not directly address the modern psychological concept of projection, its teachings on self-awareness, judgment, and humility provide a framework for understanding and overcoming this tendency. Through introspection and reliance on God's wisdom, believers can strive to align their perceptions and actions with biblical truth.

some ideas borrowed from BIBLE HUB

Tuesday, April 8, 2025

LIVING ALONE AND LOVING IT



I love being "with people," but I love "being alone" as well.  I always laugh to myself when people let me know, sometimes not so subtly, that they feel sorry for me for "never having married" or "having to live alone!" I chalk it up to them never having experienced what I experience, so I just laugh to myself and let it slide!  I do know one thing for sure. I could never write homilies or publish a blog if I had to live in a noisy house! I have also learned that I need to be "away from people" so as to be able to enjoy "being with people." I guess you would say that I am a true "introvert," one who gains the strength he needs to be "with people" by withdrawing for a while "from people." 

I know there are priests who fear living alone and want and need to live with other priests. Personally, I have known for a long time that I do not want to end up living in a house with other old priests! There is nothing wrong with wanting that, but personally it sounds too much like "seminary warmed over" to me! 

One can never know just how one will "end up," but I have tried to plan as best as I can for my senior years since I was first ordained. I bought my first house in 1975. It cost $6,500.00. I had $2,500.00 in Christmas Club money that I had saved over five years and borrowed the rest. I remember being so worried about how I was going to pay off a $4,000.00 loan. My salary back then was $90.00 a month with room and board. My long-term goal was to fix-up and flip houses until I owned a house in which I could retire. I reached my goal a few years ago. I have flipped seven houses over the last forty years and ended up in a paid-off two-level condo. 

The people who sold my condo to me called the downstairs level a "mother-in-law suite." One of their mother's lived separately downstairs. It has it's own kitchen, bedroom, bathroom, large living room, walk-in closets and a deck.  I bought it precisely because it was actually two small condos connected. I wanted to anticipate the day I would need a caretaker close, but not sharing the same space with me.  I had even bought an in-home health care policy when I was fifty to pay my care-taker who would be living downstairs.  

In my experience, extroverts seem to pity introverts while introverts seem to pity extroverts.  However, "One size does not fit all!" Rather than force everyone into one type of living arrangement, we just need to have several options. As far as priests go, if that is to happen new priests will have to plan for it and work for it starting when they are first ordained or else inherit it or win the lottery! When I was teaching soon-to-be priests at St. Meinrad, every year I would give each of them $100 to open an IRA to start saving for retirement with the this warning. "Do not trust the Church to take care of you in your old age! It is "supposed to," but what if it has so little money that it "can't? Give yourself some options!" 

One can never know just how one will "end up," but I have done some home-work and I hope that I can use the options I have prepared or at least be able to adapt to unforeseen changes as they come!  


Sunday, April 6, 2025

LOOK WHO'S TALKING!

  

Let the one among you who is without sin
be the first to throw a stone at her. In response
they walked away one by one,
beginning with the elders.
John 8

Like many people today, I have had more than one job. I grew up milking cows, feeding chickens, herding pigs and loading lumber. I once loaded semi-trucks at a pickle factory. I have been a groundskeeper at a hospital, an orderly in an emergency room, a house painter, a garbage truck driver, a desk clerk, a bar tender and a campground minister for the United Church of Christ in Crater Lake National Park in Oregon. As a priest, besides being a pastor of several parishes, I used to write for THE RECORD every week for 15 years. I served as one of the trustees on the J. Graham Brown Foundation Board here in Louisville, making large monetary grants to charitable and educational organizations all over the state. I traveled all over this country and nine other countries giving retreats to priests, bishops and seminarians. I was a campus minister at Somerset Community College down in southern Kentucky and here at Bellarmine University. I developed a major continuing education program, did spiritual direction, built a teaching kitchen and coffee shop and taught classes at Saint Meinrad Seminary over in Indiana. I have published a few books, renovated several houses, and in retirement, renovated my old grade school and unused rectory down in Meade County into a new Family Life Center and Guest House. I was a volunteer in the Caribbean Missions for several years. Right now, I am sponsoring a seminarian in Tanzania and trying to finish building a church in Kenya. After all that, you might say that "I've never been able to hold a job!" 

One of the last jobs I had over at Saint Meinrad Seminary, before I retired, was to teach two classes a week to the guys who were about to be ordained priests in the spring. That class was entitled "The Transition Out of the Seminary and Into Pastoral Ministry." We covered most of the issues they would face in their first several months. Some have compared their transition out of the seminary and into parishes to that of leaving home, graduating from school, beginning a career, getting married and starting a family - but all at once. Some things we covered were of a very practical nature, like paying taxes and starting a saving plan for retirement, while other things were more psychological like dealing with the grief of going off and leaving their seminary friends after many years and the anxiety of entering a strange new community of people as a new priest.

One of the important subjects we covered was "how to enter a parish." I spoke of things like going in and establishing trust and building a bond with people before they even thought about correcting people from the pulpit. It seemed that some priests just couldn’t wait to get ordained so they could condemn other people’s sins! I spoke specifically about how unwise it is for them to say things in a homily like "you people" and how much better it is to say things like "we sinners." I warned them specifically about obsessing about condemning sexual immorality all the time. In my book, doing that always says more about the people doing the condemning than those they condemn!

This is exactly the issue Jesus dealt with in today's gospel – a bunch of salivating religious fundamentalists who just couldn’t wait to have a poor woman stoned to death for committing adultery!  The last time I checked, it takes two to commit adultery. Since the text says she had been “caught in the very act of committing adultery,” I have always wondered where the man was and why they were not as eager to stone him! This story has three scenes. Let's look at them one at a time.

(1)The religious authorities drag a poor woman into an open area where Jesus was teaching and make her stand there humiliated. She had just been caught in adultery. Yes, she was obviously used in the committing of adultery, but the religious authorities were also using her themselves - this time to trap Jesus in his speech so they could have something for which to condemn him! They thought they had a perfect trap because, on one hand, if he was too lenient, they could say "Aha! See! He teaches something different from Moses who told us that such women were to be stoned to death!" That could get him labeled as a heretic. If he were to be in favor of stoning her, then they could say on the other hand, "Aha! See! He is not as merciful and forgiving as he has been saying he is!" That would turn the crowds against him!

(2) In the second scene, Jesus realizes that they are using her to set up a "damned if you do and damned if you don't" trap for him, so he doesn't answer one way or another! Instead, he just stoops down and writes on the ground with his finger. What was he writing? No one knows, but some say he was simply making a list of their sins in the dirt. Once he had written his list of their sins, he stands up and says to those who were so anxious to stone the poor woman, "Let the one among you has never sinned yourself be the first to throw a stone at her!" With that he stooped down again and continued to add to his list of their sins.

(3) Jesus did not have to say much after that because her condemners began to drop their heads, to drop their rocks, and to drop out of the crowd one-by-one. It even says, "They walked away, one by one, beginning with the older ones." I suppose the longer we live, the more sins we commit. This leaves Jesus and the poor woman there alone. He stands up and says to her, "Neither do I condemn you! Go, and don't commit this sin again!" 

By saying that, Jesus does not wink at the seriousness of the sin committed, he merely means that we would all be better off if we spent more time being outraged at our own sins and less time being outraged by the sins of others. Rather than focusing on the woman's sin alone, by his actions Jesus simply says that everybody that day was in need of forgiveness. Jesus offered the grace and mercy of God to all equally - scribes, Pharisees, the woman, all who witnessed this event and all of us who have heard it read aloud again today.

Fellow Catholics! Jesus spoke to us often about judging others. He told us not to judge, lest we be judged. He told us not to go around looking for specs of sin in other people eyes when we have a 2 X 4 sticking out of our own and that we need to remove that 2 X 4 first. He told us that the measure we use to measure others will be used to measure us! He told us to forgive and we will be forgiven. He told us that all we can see are externals and only God can see into the heart! Sin is real! Sin is destructive - to ourselves and to others! We need, each of us, to become as outraged about our own sins as we do the sins of others.

When I taught young priests of tomorrow, some of whom were so anxious to get out there and condemn sin, I would tell them a story from my early priesthood that I am reminded of every time I read this gospel. There was a radio preacher in the area where I worked who loved to be on the radio to rant and rave about "sexual promiscuity in our culture today." He even went so far as to host a huge bon fire in front of his church one Saturday where he invited people to bring what he called their “dirty magazines, obscene clothing and other filth." The fire that day was huge. The following Monday, he ran off with the church's teenaged organist! As Shakespeare said. "The lady doth protest too much, methinks!" Personally, I have always preferred how Billy Graham put it when he said, "It's the Holy Spirit's job to convict, God's job to judge and my job to love."

Fellow Catholics! With what's left of this Lent, let us examine our own consciences, let us resolve to let go of our own sinful ways, let us rely on the mercy and compassion of God and let us offer that same mercy and compassion to our fellow believers who have also sinned!