Tuesday, July 30, 2024
ONCE A MISSIONARY, ALWAYS A MISSIONARY
Tuesday, July 23, 2024
A GOOD FRIEND'S FUNERAL HOMILY
Over the Christmas holidays, a couple of years ago, I got Morgan Freeman and Jack Nicholson. It is about the opportunity to watch the 2007 movie, The Bucket List, starring two terminally ill men on a road trip with a “wish list” of things to do before they “kicked the bucket.” Since I had just officially retired, it struck a chord with me.
In one of my very favorite scenes, they are both sitting on one of the pyramids in Egypt. Morgan Freeman’s character says to Jack Nicholson’s character, “You know the ancient Egyptians had a beautiful belief about death. When their souls got to the entrance to heaven…the gods asked them two questions. Their answer determined whether they were admitted or not. “Have you found joy in your life?” “Has your life brought joy to others?”
When
Faye Thurman asked me to preside and preach at Dick’s funeral Mass today, I
thought these two questions would be two great questions I imagine Dick being
asked when he arrived at the gates of heaven.
“Did you find joy in your life?” “Did your life bring joy to others?”
Jesus, of course, put it this way! Has God’s love for you brought you
happiness? Has God’s love for you inspired you to share that happiness with
others? I am confident that he is able to answer both questions with a
resounding “yes.” I know from talking to him in depth that his life, especially
after he “discovered his new religion,” has certainly brought joy to his life
and, from what I heard around the bed right after he died, his life has
certainly brought joy to the lives of his family and friends! I heard Faye says more than once, “I am going
to miss him so much!” I am sure his children feel the same way! I heard his grandchildren
say, and all verbally agreed, “He was the best grandfather any grandchild ever
had!” How good is that? I got an e-mail from a friend of Faye’s to whom Faye
said about me, “Dick loved Father Ron!” After so many breakfasts, health crises,
prayers shared, support for my projects and laughs together, talking about our
humble beginnings and our Honorary Doctorates from Bellarmine, I can truly say
he brought joy into my life as well. It was great to hear that my life had
enriched his!
What we are talking about here, with those two questions, is the living
out of the Great Commandment. The "great commandment" of Jesus says,
"Love your neighbor as yourself," not "Love
your neighbor rather than yourself!" In other words, if you have no
love for yourself, you will have no love to share with your neighbor! You cannot give anybody else anything, if you
don't have anything to give! As I learned in High School Latin class, "Nemo
dat quod not habet." "If you ain't got it, you can't give
it!" Only those who have joy in their own lives are able to bring joy
into the lives of others. Only those who love themselves can love others. Only
those who know how God’s loves, are inspired to love another, as they are
loved!
Only those who know how God’s loves can love another as they are loved!
How does God love? From 54 years of preaching, I have learned sadly that
many so-called “religious” people don’t know squat about how God loves! That’s
why I picked the story I read from the gospel today. Religious people who don’t
know how God loves, usually mis-name this story. They call it the story of the
Prodigal Son! The better name for it is the story of the Loving Father! The
wayward son is not the hero of this story simply because he shaped up
and came crawling back home. Neither is the uptight and pouting “perfect” son the
hero simply because he stayed home, kept the rules and did what he was
obligated to do! The real hero of this story is that love-crazy father who
loved both of his sons – the one who got down with the pigs and the one
who stayed home and did what was expected of him! You and I are one or the
other of those two sons – either the wayward son who wasted his money on
prostitutes and had to get a job feeding pigs or the self-righteous, uptight,
religious conformist who stayed home but probably wanted, in his heart of
hearts, to do some of the wild things his little brother did while he was gone!
The father in this parable stands for God! In other words, Jesus tells the
people who heard this parable that God is just like the father in this story.
That is why the rejects and marginalized of society flocked to Jesus! He
preached the “good news” of God’s unconditional love! That is why the
religious conformists hated Jesus and had him killed for this kind of talk!
They preached the “bad news” of God’s conditional love, which caused
people to run away from them!
So, who does God love and how does God love? God loves everybody
and he loves everybody, no ands, if or buts about it! No, God does not love the
evil we do, but like a good parent, he doesn’t quit loving us and abandons us when
we do bad things! If the whole Bible was lost except this one story, we would
still have the essence of all that Jesus came to this earth to tell us! The
good and the bad alike are loved by God and we too are called to love each
other, our friends as well as our enemies, as God loves us! Remember
that, because there will be a test at the end of the homily to see if you heard
what this story is teaching us! I believe Dick knew this truth and he would
want you to know it as well!
Dick came into my life toward the end of his life. He admitted that was
not a “religious” man early on, he might have even compared himself to the
prodigal son, but he “discovered” religion when he was faced with kidney
disease. He told me he was inspired by his sister’s faith. He and Faye started coming
to the Cathedral with Jim and Dot Patterson. I remember praying with him for a
“miracle” kidney donor and looking for printed prayers to give him to encourage
him. Friends, our prayers were answered and a ‘miracle” was granted! I received
him into the church and I have been privileged to give him 4 of our 7
sacraments: confirmation, holy eucharist, penance and anointing of the sick! He
was already baptized and married or he would have received all of them except
ordination! We met regularly, talked about spiritual things, shared prayers and
throughout, he took his new catholic faith very seriously! It brought him joy! Yes,
it brought him joy! He brought me joy, as well, watching his spiritual life
take root and grow!
Finally, friends, the parable today, applied to Dick, is this! Just like
the father in that gospel story who loved both his sons, the good one and
the bad one, God love the old Dick and the new Dick. Dick may have
discovered religion at the end of his life, but God had been there all along - loving
him all the time – both while he was away and when he came home! Today, I
can imagine Jesus saying to him these familiar words, “Well done, good and
faithful servant, enter into the joy of your master!” ‘Enter into my joy because
you welcomed that joy into your own life and you passed that joy on into the
life of your family, your friends, your neighbors and your fellow men and
women!’
Congratulations, Dick! You made it across the finish line! Like Faye kept
saying at the hospital, we are really going to miss you, but someday we hope to
see you again! In the meantime, pray for us and we will pray for you! We say
that because he used to say the Creed with us every Sunday when we all professed
together that “we believe in the communion of saints,” which is to say that we
believe in a holy and unbroken connection between the living and the dead!
Finally, let me say this – something I try to say at every funeral.
Friends, if there are any slights, hard feelings or neglect between you and
Dick Thurman or between Dick Thurman and you, let it go! God has forgiven him!
God has forgiven you! He did his best and so did you! He is at peace and so can
you be at peace! Let it go!
Now for the test! So that you won’t flunk, I am going to give you a hint! It’s one word and it begins with an “e!” Here goes!
FATHER KNOTT: Who does God love?
CONGREGATION: Everybody!
FATHER KNOTT: Correct! You get an A+! Now, go love each other as God loves
Dick Thurman and you!
Thursday, July 11, 2024
EVEN THE THOUGHT OF THESE SCENES BREAKS MY HEART
I am sure most of you know of Hurricane Beryl that ripped through the Caribbean Islands of St. Vincent and the Grenadines (where I made 12 trips as a volunteer Caribbean missionary) and caused damage as it made its way all the way up to Texas and beyond.
While the damage in the islands of SVG goes far beyond this blog-post, completely destroying many homes and some churches, I want to focus mainly on two small churches on two islands where I had led an effort to provide several improvements. At least two churches were completely destroyed in the recent Hurricane Beyl and the other was destroyed in a volcano eruption on St. Vincent in 2021. Other destroyed or damaged churches, school roofs and homes we helped update are not included in this post.
At least two churches, maybe three, were outfitted with red chairs that had come out of our Louisville Cathedral as part of a major renovation of island churches: chairs, new ceiling fans, liturgical equipment and, in one case a new fence, gate and floor make-over.
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PRE-HURRICANE BERYL
Immaculate Conception Church on Mayreau Island is part of a three-island parish cluster called Holy Family Parish. The other two churches are Our Lady of the Assumption on Canouan Island and St. Joseph Church on Union Island.
PRE-VOLCANO
Tuesday, May 28, 2024
FIDELITY - TODAY'S UNCOMMON VIRTUE
Everybody has a “bucket list” of sorts of things they dream of doing before they die. It may not be an official list, but simply some dream they hold in their hearts of something they would like to do or a place they would like to visit before they die! For me, it was a cruise through the Greek islands! In 1995, for my 25th ordination anniversary, the Cathedral parish gave me that trip. To walk up the very wide main street from the port that St. Paul himself walked, was moving indeed! Another of the highlights of that stop in Ephesus was a bus trip to the top of the hill where St. John and Mary, the mother of Jesus, is believed to have lived out their final days.
When today’s gospel reading comes up where Jesus basically hands the care of his mother to his beloved disciple, I remember that visit. The tiny community where they are believed to have lived, overlooking the great city of Ephesus, is not that impressive. What is impressive was their fidelity to Jesus as they stood there at the cross to the very end! Their fidelity is much more important than that tiny village overlooking Ephesus. It is their fidelity I want to talk about today, not my trip!
Fidelity! We have a whole lot of names for it: keeping a promise, carry through, doing what you said you'd do, keep your word, putting your money where your mouth is, putting up and shutting up, being faithful, to name a few.
When I was ordained a priest, 54 years ago last Thursday, I made a promise to remain faithful to my ministry till death, very much like the Sisters, priests and married residents. Let me share with you a few things I have learned about fidelity.
(1) Fidelity is not static, but dynamic. By that, I mean you don't just commit in some ceremony and "puuuf," fidelity is guaranteed. It is always a way of life, rather than a fact of life. Fidelity is something that must be freely and consciously chosen every morning you put your feet to the floor, whether you're a marriage partner, a Sister or a priest. In a day’s time, life offers innumerable opportunities to be faithful or unfaithful. In fact, many of those around us today will actually encourage us and entice us to be unfaithful, rather than faithful. In other words, opportunities for infidelity, as well as some very convincing rhetoric will try to entice us to be unfaithful. Like love, fidelity can often be demandingly harsh, especially when you have to say "no" to things that look good, smell good, taste good and feel good - all for the sake of a higher good.
(2) Those who make commitments to fidelity must count the cost before they make it and be able to pay the price after they make it. In marriage, you must not just be able to remain faithful yourself, you have to marry someone else who has what it takes to remain faithful. One should never make a lifetime commitment without having what it takes to keep it. Before one takes such a serious leap as a life-time commitment, one must be able to take baby steps before big steps. Before one makes a lifetime commitment, it is a good idea to see if one can make small commitments and keep them. If you never keep your word, never follow through on even small promises, always take the latest best offer no matter what you told someone else yesterday, never finish a project, never can be counted on to show up, then you are not ready to be a priest, Sister or get married.
(3) Fidelity is often presented as a horrible cross to bear with rewards only in the after-life. Very little is said about the payoffs of fidelity. I believe that fidelity has pay-offs similar to regular exercise and a good diet. It's not easy, but it is ultimately good for you and for society. God knows we have seen the pain that uncommitted partners, infidelity, latest best offers, grass-is-greener-on-the-other-side-of-the-fence thinking have inflicted on innocent marriage partners, families and especially children. Fidelity teaches you a lot about yourself. It teaches you to work through problems, rather than run from them. It helps you focus your energy in a more effective way.
(4) One does not just make a promise of fidelity and hope for the best or merely tough it out. One must tend one's garden, pay attention on a daily basis and do all one can to protect one's commitment from compromise and contamination. I have learned one thing from hundreds and hundreds of failed marriages. They were not killed. They simply starved to death, day after day, from lack of care and feeding!
One of my heroes is Father Pierre Teilhard de Chardin, a French Jesuit and a scientist. Because of his new ideas, he was silenced by Rome in 1926. He was urged by many to leave, not only the Jesuits, but also the Church. He decided rather to "go on to the end and with a smile if possible." Why? He said, "When I took my vows, I committed myself. To break them would be an offense against honor." "One must work from within," he said. "Those who leave no longer have any influence. The ideas now considered revolutionary will be generally accepted...The day will come; there can be no possible doubt about it."
These
words of Father de Chardin have always challenged me on my personal journey of
fidelity especially the part where he says, "One must work (for change) from
within (the Church). Those who leave no longer have any influence.” How true! How very true!
Saturday, May 18, 2024
CELEBRATING IN MEADE COUNTY THIS WEEKEND
St. Mary Magdalene of Pazzi Church
St. Mary Magdalen of Pazzi Church was founded off of St. Theresa of Avila Church in 1872 by its pastor Father Jule Pierre Raoux, an immigrant from France. Since my mother was baptized and raised in St. Mary Magdalen of Pazzi, my parents were married there. Today, both parishes share one pastor, Father George Illiikkal, an immigrant from India.
Last year, to celebrate the opening of the new St. Theresa Family Life Center, shared by both parishes, I wrote the lyrics of a new hymn to celebrate our common histories and to celebrate our working together as sister-parishes today.
Thursday, May 16, 2024
ON THIS DAY 1970 - 54 YEARS AGO
This ceramic statue of a priest was given to me on my ordination day 54 years ago. For me, it symbolizes my 54 years of ministry. It's hat has been cracked and part of it is missing during one of my moves. One of it's eyes has been knocked out in a another move. I keep it because, in spite of all it has been through, like me, it is still standing tall!
The biggest thing I have learned is that not getting what you want can actually be the best thing that can happen to you!
Take risks! Always choosing safety can be deadly! Be ready for, and open to, surprises!
Life is not something that happens to you and all you can do is make the most of it! You have to be pro-active in creating the life you want!
People are basically good, especially if you are good to them! Give and it will be given back to you!
I am simply amazed and forever grateful for a wonderful 54 years of priesthood!
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This song was sung at my first Mass on May 17, 1970. I have played it, or had it sung, on every ordination anniversary since.
Tuesday, May 14, 2024
THE PROMISE BEHIND THIS YEAR’S PRIEST CHANGES
At our Priest Assembly in 2012, the priests of the Louisville, one at a time, were invited to renew their Promises of Obedience to then Archbishop Thomas C. Kelly OP
THAT OTHER PROMISE
A few selected ideas from an article I wrote about the Promise of Obedience in 2010 for Our Sunday Visitor Magazine.
The priests, who
make up the majority of every diocesan presbyterate, make two solemn promises:
celibacy and obedience. (It might be good to remind ourselves here that
religious priests working under a diocesan bishop are full members of that
presbyterate as long as they are working in that diocese. They are not just
visitors or mere associates.)
Rather than
negatives, the promises of celibacy and obedience are meant to free us up for
ministry. Celibacy makes it possible for us to become that ''intimate
sacramental brotherhood for the purpose of ministry'' that the Church speaks
about.
Of the two
promises, the only one we ever hear much about, after we make it, is celibacy.
We never hear too much about ''the other promise,'' the promise of obedience.
It, too, makes it possible for us to be that ''intimate sacramental brotherhood
for the purpose of ministry.''
The older I get,
the more I appreciate the wisdom of our two promises. Regardless of all the
pious exaggeration written about the beauties of celibacy, I agree that, if
embraced and lived freely, it can be freeing. It can free one up for a greater
good, for full-time service to the People of God. The only time I have ever
thought much about obedience, or needed to, was when I got my first assignment
after I was ordained.
As one who was
born in the country, but urbanized quite well by the seminary system, I had my
heart set on being an associate pastor in a large suburban parish in
Louisville, where restaurants, theaters and friends were all around. What I got
was an assignment to the ''home missions'' of our diocese, on the edge of
Appalachia, a parish the size of the state of Delaware with a Catholic
population of one tenth of one percent, as far away from Louisville as one
could get. My family and friends were three hours away.
I cried, I pleaded
and I even took to my bed to no avail! I had to go ''out of obedience.'' I was
a bit like those people who join the National Guard in peacetime, not imagining
that they would ever have to fight a war! I balked at first, but with God's help,
I was able to turn my mind around.
Since I didn't get
what I wanted, I decided to want what I got. That, I believe, is part of the
true spirit behind the ''promise of obedience.'' I went because the bishop has
the ''big picture'' and said he needed me there. I went because I promised him and
his successors that I would go where the Church needed my gifts.
Yes, I was upset
and disappointed. Yes, I tried to change his mind, but in the end, I knew that
it was me who needed to change my mind. I did change it, not grudgingly, but
with as much good spirit as I could muster. (By the way, that assignment turned
out to be fabulous, one that led directly to later assignments that were all
the loves of my life.)
Over the years, my
understanding and appreciation of ''obedience'' has evolved. It has matured. I
have come to see that the ''promise of obedience'' has implications beyond the
person of the bishop. It includes a promise to fellow members of my presbyterate.
Rather than making me a slave to the whims of one particular person, the
bishop, it is really a promise to be a ''team player'' with the bishop and the
other members of my presbyterate for the sake of the common purpose we share:
effective ministry to the People of God. It is this understanding of the
''promise of obedience,'' a promise to be a ''team player,'' that I believe
will lead to a renewal of our presbyterates. The theology is quite clear: we
are not priests, one by one. We are priests in a presbyterate under a bishop.
''Lone rangers'' and ''priests in private practice'' are heretical!
Remember these
promises? You made them! I made them! We meant them, didn't we? Didn't we? (1)
''Are you resolved, with the help of the Holy Spirit, to discharge without
fail, the office of the priesthood in the presbyteral order as a conscientious
fellow worker with the bishops in caring for the Lord's flock?'' (2) Do you
promise respect and obedience to me and my successors?'' How do those promises
sound to you after all these years? How do those promises sound in one’s
retirement years!
Priests do not
carry out their own ministry, they are fellow workers in helping the bishop
carry out his ministry! For the bishop to carry out his ministry of caring for
the Lord's flock, his team of fellow workers must be on the same page with him!
That is why respect and obedience is needed! All this is beautifully put in
Eucharistic Prayer I for Masses of Reconciliation, ''Keep us all in communion
of mind and heart with our Pope and our bishop.''
At a time we need
to work together as a team, we seem to be growing further and further apart. As
Lily Tomlin would put it, ''We are all in this together, by ourselves.'' A new
look at, and a new appreciation of, our promise of obedience, I believe, can be
the beginning of the reversal of that trend.
An expansive
understanding of ''promise of obedience'' is the only thing we have in our
arsenal as diocesan priests to ritualize that group resolve because, in it, we
promise each other to be ''team players.'' We cannot have a healthy, unified
presbyterate when everyone is self-focused. We are an orchestra, not a loose
association of soloists. We are one body with many parts, each with gifts the
whole body needs. Like the original twelve, Christ calls us to resist those
things that threaten that unity, especially working alone, working too much and
working against each other.
Friday, April 19, 2024
IT'S BABY GEESE SEASON ON THE CONDO POND
Saturday, April 13, 2024
BAD NEWS FROM MY HOME PARISH - HISTORIC ST. THERESA
Two Juveniles Charged In Church Vandalism

Two juveniles are facing charges after a burglary and vandalizing of property at St. Theresa of Avila Catholic Church in Rhodelia.
On Tuesday (4/9), deputies and detectives from the Meade County Sheriff’s Office responded to the church about a vandalism complaint.
Deputies met with church staff who were able to provide video of two juvenile subjects on the property vandalizing the exterior of the buildings. Deputies entered the church building and observed extensive damage to the inside. It appeared the juveniles had dispersed several fire extinguishers inside the church and destroyed numerous religious artifacts. The juveniles spread holy oil over the floor of the building destroying the carpet and turned the cross upside down on the altar. The damage to the church and Parish Hall is estimated at this time to be well over $10,000.
Detectives processed the scene at the facilities and collected numerous items of evidence. Deputies also took notice and processed additional damage to headstones at the cemetery across from St Theresa Church that were damaged the previous day.
Detectives were able to identify two juvenile suspects who are in custody at this time.
The suspects are being charged with Burglary in the Second Degree and Criminal Mischief in the First Degree. The investigation will be turned over to the County Attorney and Commonwealth Attorneys Office for prosecution.
NOTES FROM FATHER KNOTT
Thank God, they did not enter the new St. Theresa Family Life Center (old Cross Roads grade school) that we had just completed renovating several months back. However, our new security cameras that I had insisted on installing caught them on the videos. Neither did they enter the new Guest House (old rectory). They also did extensive damage in the Parish Hall. However, they did destroy several old tombstones in the old St. Theresa Cemetery including pushing over the headstone of Matilda Hurd Chisley that I had just recently had cleaned and reset. It was not broken completely, thank God, and is already being reset.
Matilda is the grandmother of the Venerable Augustus Tolton who was the first black Catholic priest ordained in the US and will hopefully soon be declared a saint by the Pope. Both Matilda and her daughter Martha Jane (mother of Augustus Tolton) were enslaved members of St. Theresa Parish. Martha Jane was moved to Missouri at age 17 by her "owner." Augustus Tolton was born enslaved until his mother escaped with him and his siblings from Missouri to the free state of Illinois as a child. Father Augustus Tolton attended seminary and was ordained in Rome because no US seminary would accept a black seminarian at that time!




