Saturday, May 10, 2025

"YOU JUST CAN'T MAKE THIS STUFF UP" 2025 #19

                           

Below, I am sitting (second from the left with the beard) in front of the welcome building at Taize (above) in the early 1970s.
The same building (above) as it is today. 

MY EUROPEAN TRAVEL ON A FEW DOLLARS
Part One

Between 1971 and 1976, I made 5 back-packing trips to Europe with students from Somerset Community College in Somerset, Kentucky, where my first assignment was as a newly ordained priest. Ignorant of how risky and challenging it might be to be responsible for young adults who had never been out of Kentucky, I managed to accompany small groups of from 5 - 10 at a time. After landing in Paris, we always made our way south to Taize, France, in a rental car where 1,500 youth a week from all over the world would gather for a week-long retreat while camping in the open fields around the tiny town of Taize. Taize was the location of the ecumenical monastery of Protestant, Catholic and Orthodox monks half-way between Paris and Lyon, about two miles from the ancient ruins of the famous Catholic monastery of Cluny. In this first of two blogposts, I will report a few of the odd experiences we "enjoyed" during those trips. 

When you "registered" at Taize, you were "assigned" to a language group. Of course most American were placed in one of the English speaking groups, along with those from other countries who wanted to practice their English-as-a-second-language speaking abilities. We would typically be assigned to a group with students from Germany, Holland, Belgium, Poland, Austria and a few other countries. 

One of my favorite memories were the bonfires in an open field. A hundred or so of us would create a circle of sleeping bags around the fire, two rows deep, while anyone who wished could start a song in whatever language, usually English, and we would sing as a group the rest of the evening. As the night wore on, we would go to sleep in that circle, in our sleeping bags, in what got to be called "a sandwich bed." It was called that because we had fifty or so army blankets to cover our sleeping bags in an over-lapping pattern. It was summer, so it was not a problem, even if we woke up the next day a little damp from the dew. 

One day some of us Americans and Belgians decided to hike a few miles across the fields and walk back on the nearby railroad tracks. As we came around a bend in the tracks, we could see a truck caught between the crossing gates that had closed in front of and behind the truck and a man screaming as he waved angrily at us. We had no idea why he was so angry at us until one of the Belgians translated for us. He was angry because we had triggered the gates as if we were a train coming by our walking! I had no idea what names he was calling us, but the Belgians simple said, "It's not good! Let's run back the way we came until he is gone!" 

The "accommodations" at Taize were "primitive" to say the least! What could one expect for the $2.00 a day for food, "if you could afford it" and some couldn't! For breakfast, you got a plastic bowl of hot chocolate and a fist full of French bread (which was always good." For lunch you got a plastic bowl with lemonade, maybe a hardboiled egg or two and more French bread. For dinner, you got a plastic bowl with mashed potatoes topped with a greasy sausage and me a soft drink. The showers were icy cold and the toilets were, let's say very much like you would imagine in a concentration camp! You di your business with your nose pinched and got out asap! 

The church services were always in French, but the music was so simple and repetitious that you didn't need a music sheet. There were no seats, even for the monks who sat in the center of the church. Everybody sat on their heels, or with their legs crossed, elbow to elbow. When I was there, the crowds were huge.  The "reflections" by Prior Roger were always translated into multiple languages at the same time though headsets that could be picked up on your way into the church. 





 






 



Thursday, May 8, 2025

A BOOK RECOMMENDATION

 

Yes, this is another "self-help book," but this is a book about happy and healthy adult relationships, not a book on how to raise children.

LET THEM
available on Amazon Books

If you've ever felt stuck, overwhelmed, or frustrated with where you are, the problem isn't you. The problem is the power you give to other people. Two simple words—Let Them—will set you free. Free from the opinions, drama, and judgments of others. Free from the exhausting cycle of trying to manage everything and everyone around you. The Let Them Theory puts the power to create a life you love back in your hands—and this book will show you exactly how to do it.


In her latest groundbreaking book, The Let Them Theory, Mel Robbins—New York Times bestselling author and one of the world's most respected experts on motivation, confidence, and mindset—teaches you how to stop wasting energy on what you can't control and start focusing on what truly matters: YOU. Your happiness. Your goals. Your life.


Using the same no-nonsense, science-backed approach that's made The Mel Robbins Podcast a global sensation, Robbins explains why The Let Them Theory is already loved by millions and how you can apply it in eight key areas of your life to make the biggest impact. Within a few pages, you'll realize how much energy and time you've been wasting trying to control the wrong things—at work, in relationships, and in pursuing your goals—and how this is keeping you from the happiness and success you deserve.


Written as an easy-to-understand guide, Robbins shares relatable stories from her own life, highlights key takeaways, relevant research and introduces you to world-renowned experts in psychology, neuroscience, relationships, happiness, and ancient wisdom who champion The Let Them Theory every step of the way.


Learn how to:
Stop wasting energy on things you can't control
Stop comparing yourself to other people
Break free from fear and self-doubt
Release the grip of people's expectations
Build the best friendships of your life
Create the love you deserve
Pursue what truly matters to you with confidence
Build resilience against everyday stressors and distractions
Define your own path to success, joy, and fulfillment


. . . and so much more.


The Let Them Theory will forever change the way you think about relationships, control, and personal power. Whether you want to advance your career, motivate others to change, take creative risks, find deeper connections, build better habits, start a new chapter, or simply create more happiness in your life and relationships, this book gives you the mindset and tools to unlock your full potential.

Tuesday, May 6, 2025

I GAVE WHAT I COULD, BUT I REALLY NEED SOME HELP TO FINISH


THE NEW SAINT VERONICA CHURCH IS PAID FOR AND NEARING COMPLETION, BUT IT STILL NEEDS INTERIOR FURNISHINGS

$40,000 DOWN AND ONLY $10,000.00 TO GO 



THE OLD ST. VERONICA CHURCH

THE NEW ST. VERONICA CHURCH-TO-BE
will be something like this but a bit bigger


St. Veronica, Pray for Us!

THE CHURCH'S NAME SAKE AND HER STORY

The new St. Veronica Church is named for  Veronica Nthambi Kitili, an illiterate catechist and a model of the Christian faith from her small community. She walked great distances to church, instructed people in the faith in her own home at night and taught people Catholic prayers until she died.  She was the godmother to thousands of newly baptized members of the Catholic Church. 

In 2020, as she grew too old to make the long walk to church, she made an appointment to meet with the circuit-riding priest to request the establishment of a small church in her village even though they had no resident priest at the time. The circuit-riding priest liked her idea and Veronica set about securing the land on which to build it. Sadly, she died in October 2021 before the church could open officially.  

After her death, the priest asked the people what name they should give their new church. Many ideas were suggested. The priest proposed the name "St. Veronica Catholic Church"  and everyone clapped in approval. The priest told them: "We want to honor her great example of faith." 

I have agreed to do what I can to replace the present simple stick building with its sheet metal roof (see photo at top of this post) with something larger, more stable, longer lasting and more appropriate. It will be built mostly with stones cemented together, a concrete floor and a metal roof.  

I have a lot of experience in raising funds for mission projects in the Caribbean. I know that donations need to be protected and monitored so that they are not misused, misdirected or confiscated. As a result, I have made arrangements to funnel my donations through the Father John Judie Ministries, an official legal tax deductible 501-3c non-profit organization operated by Father John Judie, a local Louisville priest, who volunteers in Kenya and Tanzania. In appreciation for his help with this project, I have promised to pay for his next flight to his east African missions with my unused American Airlines Frequent Flyer miles. I have no desire to fly long-distance anymore for a vacation so I am happy to give them to him. Father Judie has agreed to oversee the distribution of my funds. He will require receipts and progress photos from Veronica's son, Julius Kitili in Kenya, who has agreed to oversee the purchase of materials, oversee the construction itself and help recruit local volunteer labor to hold down the costs.  

The total estimated cost of this new church is $40,000.00 US Dollars which I guaranteed to Father John Judie Ministries as proven progress is made on the construction. I  made the first two payments so they would have something on hand to buy materials to get started. So far, I have already donated $25,000.00 of my own money to this project from my retirement fund. Another eight generous people have donated together another $15,000.00. This means the total cost of the church itself is now secured, but without its interior furnishings!

What I really need now are some funds to help them with some church furnishing so as to finish the inside of the church. This expense is not included in the $40,000.00 building costs. At first, I thought about sending them a half-size shipping container with some free surplus medical supplies for the local village from our local SOS and some free used local church furnishings from our local parishes, but found out that it would cost $10,000.00 just to ship it.  Rather than spend that amount of money just for shipping used stuff from here, I have decided that it would be wiser to send them the $10,000 to source the church furnishings locally and not risk having the shipping container contents corruptly seized, stolen or held for ransom at the seaport. 

JUST $10,000.00 NEEDED TO FINISH THIS PROJECT

Building a new church, fully furnished, for a grand total of $50,000 sounds like a "miracle" to me! The Catholic Church in Africa is growing, not shrinking, so help me out here so together we can finish funding this project soon. I am not inviting you to help me personally. I am inviting you to join me so that together we can share that good feeling that comes from being part of a visible, tangible and worthwhile project that will continue to serve and build other people up long after we are gone! Help me out, if you can, because..........

"Those who water others will themselves be watered!" 
Book of Proverbs 11:25


Make your tax deductible checks out to: 
                               Father John Judie Ministries - St. Veronica Project


Send your donation checks to me to be forwarded to Father John Judie Ministries for deposit so I can keep up with the totals as we go along and report them to you on this blog.

Rev. Ronald Knott
1271 Parkway Gardens Court
#106
Louisville, Kentucky 40217
502-303-4571




 



 


 






Sunday, May 4, 2025

GOOD OLD "OVER-COMPENSATING" SAINT PETER

When Simon Peter heard that it was the Lord, he tucked in his garment, for he was lightly clad, and jumped into the sea. The other disciples came in the boat, dragging the net with the fish. Jesus said to them, "Bring some of the fish you just caught." Simon Peter went over and dragged the net ashore full of one hundred fifty-three large fish.
John 21:1-19

Every time I read a passage about good old Saint Peter, the Apostle, I chuckle to myself!  I have read and preached on them many, many times since I was pastor of Saint Peter Mission Church in Monticello, down along the Tennessee border, south of Lake Cumberland.  Good old Saint Peter has to be one of the worst “people pleasers” in all of scripture. He is always kissing up to Jesus and then proceeding to fall on his face. You have to love this bumbling old fisherman, who had an almost insatiable desire to please Jesus whom he obviously loved so much. 

Peter would have made a great clown for kids. I sure children back then loved him because you can’t help laughing at his antics. Nowhere are those antics more obvious than in the gospel stories about him.

First, his name was originally “Simon.” It was Jesus who gave him the nickname “Peter,” meaning “Rock.” I am sure the other apostles might have thought that “Mr. McGoo” or “Marshmallow Man” would have been more like it. He was always rushing into delicate situations, bragging and making a scene, then falling on his face at the end.

He and the other apostles, in one gospel, are out on a lake in a storm. They are struggling at the oars against the huge waves trying to get to shore, when all of a sudden, they look up and see Jesus walking on the water toward them. Peter, as always, sticks his foot in his mouth.  “Lord, if it is really you, let me walk on the water toward you!” Jesus invites him to get out of the boat and walk toward him. Peter, out of the boat, out into deep water and in high winds, begins to sink. “Lord, help me! I’m going to drown!” Jesus had to rescue him at the last minute.

At the transfiguration, after having been through a powerful religious experience, Peter does not know how to handle it except to open his big mouth and make the outrageous suggestion that the experience be made permanent. “Wow, Jesus, this is so cool! Let’s set up tents and just stay up here forever!”  Jesus is forced to explain to Peter the whole purpose of their peak experience was to strengthen them for the tough days ahead, not something that could be frozen in time!

At the Last Supper when Jesus approached Peter to wash his feet, overcome with humility, Peter begins to protest that he would never allow such a thing! When Jesus explains to him that if he would not allow it, then he could never be a part of him, Peter throws it in reverse! “Well, if that is the case, then wash my hands and head as well! Wash me all over!”  With Peter, it is always an “all or nothing” proposition.

When Jesus predicts that he will be betrayed by one of his disciples, Peter jumps into the discussion to brag. “Even if everyone else abandons you, I will never abandon you!” Not too much later, after Jesus is arrested and the heat is on, Peter denies Jesus - not once, not twice, but three times! “Jesus who?  Certainly, not me! Please, woman, I don’t know who you are talking about!” 

Then there is today’s story of Peter out fishing again after the resurrection. It is so typical of Peter. First, it tells us that Peter was stripped to the waist so that he could haul the wet nets back into his fishing boat. When he is told that Jesus was on the shore, he gets so flustered and excited that it says he “puts on his clothes first and then jumps into the water.” You can just imagine Jesus laughing as he sees Peter dragging himself out of the water with soggy clothes, dripping wet, and gushing with enthusiasm.

Second, it tells us that when Jesus asked Peter for some of the fish he caught to put on the grill he had fired up on the beach, Peter runs back to the boat and drags the net to Jesus, dumping 153 large fish at his feet.  You can almost hear him say breathlessly, “There! How’s that? Is that enough? If not, I’ll be happy to go get some more!” Jesus, knee-deep in fish, probably shook his head in laughter at Peter’s impulsive need to please. Like always, good old St. Peter couldn’t help himself. He was driven to over-compensate for his failures yet again! Jesus, no doubt, sees the big heart inside his clumsy klutz of an apostle, Peter!

When they finish breakfast, Jesus asks Peter three times if he loved him! It sounds so much like teasing him to me! It’s almost like Jesus saying, “Remember before my death when you denied me three times? Well, I am going to give you a chance to take it back!” Each time Jesus asks Peter if he loved him, Peter answers with increasing firmness, “Yes, Lord, you know I love you!” Behind his words, you can imagine Jesus seeing in his expression, “Lord, I am sorry! I was scared! I was a coward! Forgive me!”

Peter should give us all hope. He always teaches me a lot about our relationship to God. Reading about him, I have come to believe that God is more interested in our goodhearted attempts to be faithful than our mistakes and failures. God, I have come to believe, wants a relationship with us, no matter how rocky it might be!