CHURCH CHAT #23

I'M NOT MUCH OF A DRINKER, BUT WHEN I DO DRINK...

....WE ENGLISH AGREE 

SETTLING THE UNSETTLED & UNSETTLING THE SETTLED

 

“And you shall know the truth, and the truth will set you free” is from the Gospel of John 8:32. “The truth will set you free, but first it will make you miserable” is often credited to U.S. President John A. Garfield (1831-1881), but he never said it. Others credit  Mark Twain (1835-1910). Still others credit Gestalt therapist Barry Stevens (1902-1985) in 1977.

Prophets are sometimes presented to us as people able to predict the future. In fact, they are more known for telling the truth to people who do not want to hear it, which is why they are often killed. Truth demands change, so it is often assiduously avoided by people who are quite satisfied with the status quo.

The Truth Will Set You Free - The Truth Can Settle the Unsettled

This part of the quote highlights the power of truth to liberate us. When we face the truth—whether about ourselves, others or situations—we are no longer trapped by lies, denial, or confusion. Truth can free us from self-deception, guilt, fear, or even toxic situations. It allows for personal growth and healing, which ultimately leads to freedom. Think of it as the freedom that comes from no longer hiding from reality. It’s empowering and brings clarity.

But First It Will Make You Miserable - The Truth Can Unsettle the Settled

The second part of the quote acknowledges that facing the truth can be incredibly painful at first. Because it demands change, it is not gentle and and thereby destabilizes the establishment and its institutions. It may force us to confront uncomfortable realities about ourselves or the world around us. For example, we may have to face mistakes we’ve made, the consequences of our actions, or difficult situations that we’ve been avoiding. The “misery” comes from the emotional discomfort of confronting these hard truths. It may involve feelings of regret, guilt, sadness, or disappointment.

However, this initial discomfort is seen as a necessary part of the process. In order to move forward and be truly free, we must go through the difficult experience of acknowledging what is true, no matter how painful it may be.

In essence, The quote speaks to the paradox of truth. While the truth is ultimately a source of liberation, it often requires us to go through discomfort, challenge, or hardship before we can fully embrace it. The “miserable” phase is temporary, and once we have processed the truth, we can experience emotional freedom and growth. It’s an empowering reminder that facing difficult truths is essential for long-term healing and freedom, even though the journey may be tough at first.

 

A BREAKDOWN BEFORE A BREAKTHROUGH

 

They have taken the Lord from the tomb and

we don’t know where they put him.

John 20:9

Obviously, none of Jesus’ friends expected him to rise from the dead. In fact, they all assumed the grave had been robbed and the body had been snatched. Once the news gets out that the body was missing, everybody in today’s gospel runs around like chickens with their heads cut off! The word “ran” is used three times in this one story. It sounds like a typical Easter Sunday morning at our small house when I was growing up in a family of eight - chaos as far as the eye could see! If you are here with a bunch of kids you got ready for church today, you know what I mean! 

Mary Magdalen got there first, not because she expected Jesus to rise and wanted to be there when it happened, but because she wanted to do what was traditional to do after the burial of a loved one. It was customary to visit the tomb of loved ones for three days after the body had been laid to rest. It was believed that for three days the spirit of the dead person hovered around the tomb, but then it departed because the body had become unrecognizable through decay in that hot climate. 

Jesus had died on Friday. By religious law, Mary Magdalen would not have been allowed to travel on Saturday, the Sabbath. That meant she had to wait till Sunday morning before she could make her first visit. She couldn’t wait till the sun came up so she got there before dawn. When she arrived at the tomb, she was shocked to find that the stone had been rolled back and the body was missing! She concluded that the grave had been robbed so she ran back to town and got Peter and John out of bed. All three ran back to the tomb together. John, being younger, outran Peter and got there first, with Peter soon following out of breath.  Before Mary Magdalen could catch up with them on her way back to the empty tomb, Peter and John ran past her on their way back to town to tell the others.

One by one, his disciples began to believe that Jesus had indeed been raised from the dead, beginning with John and ending with Thomas. From their mouths to others’ ears, from their mouths to others’ ears, from their mouths to others’ ears, this story has been passed down to us some 2,000 years later and here we are gathered today to celebrate what we have just heard in St. John's account of the resurrection!

Yes, this is the Easter story, but what does it mean and what does it have to do with us?

The point of Easter is not simply that life is sometimes troubling and difficult but that, by its very design, it needs to be troubling and difficult. This is because it is not ease but affliction that enables us to develop our very best. Those who grow the most are simply the ones who have weathered the most, endured the most, and struggled the most. Because such trials have been borne in the right spirit, they have been strengthened, enriched, and deepened the most by it. Think about any of the heroes and heroines of the faith, and one will always identify persons for whom hardship, sacrifice, and pain are no strangers. All breakthroughs are usually proceeded by a big breakdown. No pain, no gain! No cross, no crown! 

In short, we must view this death and resurrection not merely as just another historical event from the distant past, but as a life-giving way of living today. We are not here today to celebrate this death and resurrection as an event that just happened once in history, but death and resurrection as a way of living our lives today.

People in recovery programs understand death and resurrection as a way of life. People who have unilaterally forgiven their enemies understand death and resurrection as a way of life. Parents who have had to let go of their children and see them thrive, understand death and resurrection as a way of life. Anybody who has lost a job, only to find a better one understands death and resurrection as a way of life. Anyone who has lost a spouse, only to find another chance at love, understands death and resurrection as a way of life.

This Easter is special to me personally. Several times in the last 56 years of priesthood, I have gone from one of the worst years of priesthood to one of the best. The year I retired, I was in the pits. I knew I was in the pits, but I also knew in my guts that, if I would just hang in there, things would get better – and they did, in spades! It has happened at least three times just since I retired. For me, my breakdowns have always preceded the beginning of yet another amazing breakthrough! I am not that special! Whatever breakdown you are going through right now, with an Easter faith, could be a breakthrough for you as well! You can bet on it!

I always remember that engineer in Switzerland who designed a great tunnel between Switzerland and Austria. I have told the story often because it is so appropriate for today. He proposed they dig from both ends and meet in the middle, a risky method. When the day came when diggers were supposed to meet but didn’t, he killed himself thinking that he had made a great mistake. On the very day of his funeral, the workers broke through and the connection was perfect! He gave up one day too soon! An “Easter faith” means that you don’t give up, no matter how hopeless things seem to be at the moment.

In a nutshell, we are here to celebrate a way-of-living, not just an historic event! By embracing difficulty, we can overcome it. After a lifetime of embracing difficulties and overcoming them, we can finally embrace our own deaths knowing that there is eternal life on the other side of that!  Just as Jesus was raised, we who believe in him will also be raised - to live with him and each other forever!