Tuesday, July 30, 2024
ONCE A MISSIONARY, ALWAYS A MISSIONARY
Sunday, July 28, 2024
DON'T BE CAUGHT UNPREPARED TO SHARE!
What really happened
that afternoon a long time ago when five loaves and two fish were shared with
more than five thousand people and all went home fed, with plenty left over?
Something so wonderful happened that day that the story of it has come down to
us in all four gospels. It is one of our most regular readings throughout the
year, but what really happened?
It is highly doubtful that a crowd of
Jews that big would have left on a nine-mile hike without making preparation –
a few maybe, but certainly not five thousand people! There are two reasons I
can think of that would have prevented them from not being prepared. (1) There
were no big stores and restaurants lining the roads back then like we have
today. (2) Jews were very particular about their food. It had to
be kosher. No Jew would think of leaving home for such a long hike without his
bottle-shaped basket with its kosher food for eating.
Probably what happened was that people
were hiding what they had brought from such a hungry crowd, lest there not be
enough for themselves. It was only when Jesus took the five barley loaves and
two smoked fish from the boy, blessed them, broke them and began passing them
around that a willingness to share was triggered in the crowd. When this
example of sharing spread through the crowd, people pulled out what they had
and began to share it. Remember, the word multiplication is
not mentioned in this story. As a result of this sharing, everybody had their
fill and there was a lot left over. You can believe it was a literal
"multiplication" if you like, but I personally favor this explanation
for several reasons.
First, we need to remember that one of
the things that Jesus rejected when it was offered to him by the devil, when he
was in the desert discerning the direction of his ministry, was magically
turning rocks into bread to feed hungry people. Jesus could, not doubt, have
done that but he rejected that solution to hunger. Rather, he knew that if
people would just change their minds about shortages and share the resources of
the world, there would be no need for such “rocks into bread” magic.
Second, if it were just about Jesus’ power to miraculously produce bread and fish from thin air, then we might be amazed at the power that Jesus had, but we could not pull off such an event ourselves. No, this is a miracle alright, but I personally believe that it is a miracle of sharing, not some miraculous "multiplication." I believe that what happened is something that we, working together, can do even today. It's a miracle we, working together, can perform!
I believe strongly in being generous. I learned it growing up from my mother. She was always giving visitors to our house "something to take home with them!" I guess that's why I am always up to my ears in some kind of service project, whether it is in the island missions of the Caribbean or whether it is down in Meade County in my home parish of St. Theresa.
I have always liked being generous, but lately I have expanded that a
bit. I am trying to prepare myself for being generous. Rather than being
caught off guard and being unprepared for situations like those in today's
gospel where I can be generous, I plan in advance so that when opportunities
present themselves, I'll be ready. Obviously, the people in today's gospel had
prepared enough food beyond their own needs, without realizing it! All they
needed was the "inspiration" to "share" that came from
Jesus!
In December, I gave away three pick-up
loads of surplus stuff from my condo and garage, thereby creating an empty
cabinet dedicated to where I can put bargains, not extra things I might need
for my own use, but so that I will have a stash of things other people need,
ready to give away. I have created a special place to put whatever really good
bargain items I can find that I feel others can use! I have decided that I not
only want to be generous, but I also want to be prepared and ready to be
generous when the time comes!
I have come up with other ways to be
generous as well! (1) A few weeks ago, I got another Kroger coupon for a dozen
of free eggs. I don't eat a lot of eggs and I had just bought a whole dozen the
week before, but I got I my "free dozen of eggs" and checked
out! I waited by the door going out until I found just the right family to give
them to - she was an obviously poor woman with three small children! I offered
them to her and she was very happy to take them after I explained that I had
gotten them with a free coupon! (2) I sometimes get a coupon for a "free
package of Oreos." I try not to have sweets in the house because I am
seriously addicted to sugar! I always check out with my free Oreos and stand
outside the door and wait till I see a woman with a bunch of kids or a
grandmother who might have grandkids so I can give them away! I always give
things like Oreos to parents or grandparent, never to kids directly. These days
I could be mistaken as a predator! During Lent, I often shop with coupons in
hand, When I check out, Kroger has this nice feature that tells you how much
you saved on each trip. I keep all of the receipts till Easter and add them all
up and that is what I send to the parish Rice Bowl Collection.
I am not trying to claim to be saintly
in my generosity, nor am I trying to say that you should do what I do, but I am
saying that there are creative ways to be generous in sharing, often without you
having to suffer! All you have to do is have the desire to be generous,
pay attention, plan ahead and be creative beyond just handing dollar bills
to those suspiciously holding "homeless" signs at so many
intersections! We are all called to share what we have with those
"without," but we are also called to be "smart sharers" so
we don't keep making "dependents!" Often that requires that we
"make plans" to be generous by thinking ahead and being prepared,
rather than just hand out cash to relieve our guilt! Some families develop
“charity funds,” encourage children to do odd jobs to donate to it and then decide
together where to dispense it, teaching their children how to be smart “givers”
in the process! Richer families have established “family trusts” from which
they make donations to charity.
I have learned two things for sure!
(1) As I have learned from experience, being generous and sharing often does
more for the giver than the one to whom something is given! As
Jesus promised, "Give and it will be given to you! A good measure, pressed
down, shaken together and running over, will be poured into your lamp. For with
the measure you use, it will be measured to you!" (2) As I have
learned from today's gospel, we don't need magic and we don't need miracles!
There is already enough to go around! All we need are enough good people really
paying attention to others and being creative and smart in their
sharing!
My good people of St. Leonard Parish,
let me end this homily by repeating something I said earlier. “I believe
strongly in being generous. I learned it from my mother.” I believe in being
generous because I feel so strongly that I have been blessed. I believe in
being generous because Jesus said, “To whom much has been given, much is
required!” I believe deeply that being
generous does more for the giver than the one to whom something is given! Even
though I will see you, going forward, only once a month, I feel so blessed to
have had the opportunity to lead you in prayer several times a month over the
last few years! You have been good to me and you have been good for
me! I feel so blessed for what I have been given by people like you, over 54
years of priesthood, that I have had these four words engraved on my new
tombstone – Simply Amazed – Forever Grateful! That, my friends, is why I like to be generous
and how I want to be remembered – amazed and grateful for how much, and how
often, I have been blessed!
Saturday, July 27, 2024
Thursday, July 25, 2024
BALANCING WORK AND CONTEMPLATION
Tuesday, July 23, 2024
A GOOD FRIEND'S FUNERAL HOMILY
Over the Christmas holidays, a couple of years ago, I got Morgan Freeman and Jack Nicholson. It is about the opportunity to watch the 2007 movie, The Bucket List, starring two terminally ill men on a road trip with a “wish list” of things to do before they “kicked the bucket.” Since I had just officially retired, it struck a chord with me.
In one of my very favorite scenes, they are both sitting on one of the pyramids in Egypt. Morgan Freeman’s character says to Jack Nicholson’s character, “You know the ancient Egyptians had a beautiful belief about death. When their souls got to the entrance to heaven…the gods asked them two questions. Their answer determined whether they were admitted or not. “Have you found joy in your life?” “Has your life brought joy to others?”
When
Faye Thurman asked me to preside and preach at Dick’s funeral Mass today, I
thought these two questions would be two great questions I imagine Dick being
asked when he arrived at the gates of heaven.
“Did you find joy in your life?” “Did your life bring joy to others?”
Jesus, of course, put it this way! Has God’s love for you brought you
happiness? Has God’s love for you inspired you to share that happiness with
others? I am confident that he is able to answer both questions with a
resounding “yes.” I know from talking to him in depth that his life, especially
after he “discovered his new religion,” has certainly brought joy to his life
and, from what I heard around the bed right after he died, his life has
certainly brought joy to the lives of his family and friends! I heard Faye says more than once, “I am going
to miss him so much!” I am sure his children feel the same way! I heard his grandchildren
say, and all verbally agreed, “He was the best grandfather any grandchild ever
had!” How good is that? I got an e-mail from a friend of Faye’s to whom Faye
said about me, “Dick loved Father Ron!” After so many breakfasts, health crises,
prayers shared, support for my projects and laughs together, talking about our
humble beginnings and our Honorary Doctorates from Bellarmine, I can truly say
he brought joy into my life as well. It was great to hear that my life had
enriched his!
What we are talking about here, with those two questions, is the living
out of the Great Commandment. The "great commandment" of Jesus says,
"Love your neighbor as yourself," not "Love
your neighbor rather than yourself!" In other words, if you have no
love for yourself, you will have no love to share with your neighbor! You cannot give anybody else anything, if you
don't have anything to give! As I learned in High School Latin class, "Nemo
dat quod not habet." "If you ain't got it, you can't give
it!" Only those who have joy in their own lives are able to bring joy
into the lives of others. Only those who love themselves can love others. Only
those who know how God’s loves, are inspired to love another, as they are
loved!
Only those who know how God’s loves can love another as they are loved!
How does God love? From 54 years of preaching, I have learned sadly that
many so-called “religious” people don’t know squat about how God loves! That’s
why I picked the story I read from the gospel today. Religious people who don’t
know how God loves, usually mis-name this story. They call it the story of the
Prodigal Son! The better name for it is the story of the Loving Father! The
wayward son is not the hero of this story simply because he shaped up
and came crawling back home. Neither is the uptight and pouting “perfect” son the
hero simply because he stayed home, kept the rules and did what he was
obligated to do! The real hero of this story is that love-crazy father who
loved both of his sons – the one who got down with the pigs and the one
who stayed home and did what was expected of him! You and I are one or the
other of those two sons – either the wayward son who wasted his money on
prostitutes and had to get a job feeding pigs or the self-righteous, uptight,
religious conformist who stayed home but probably wanted, in his heart of
hearts, to do some of the wild things his little brother did while he was gone!
The father in this parable stands for God! In other words, Jesus tells the
people who heard this parable that God is just like the father in this story.
That is why the rejects and marginalized of society flocked to Jesus! He
preached the “good news” of God’s unconditional love! That is why the
religious conformists hated Jesus and had him killed for this kind of talk!
They preached the “bad news” of God’s conditional love, which caused
people to run away from them!
So, who does God love and how does God love? God loves everybody
and he loves everybody, no ands, if or buts about it! No, God does not love the
evil we do, but like a good parent, he doesn’t quit loving us and abandons us when
we do bad things! If the whole Bible was lost except this one story, we would
still have the essence of all that Jesus came to this earth to tell us! The
good and the bad alike are loved by God and we too are called to love each
other, our friends as well as our enemies, as God loves us! Remember
that, because there will be a test at the end of the homily to see if you heard
what this story is teaching us! I believe Dick knew this truth and he would
want you to know it as well!
Dick came into my life toward the end of his life. He admitted that was
not a “religious” man early on, he might have even compared himself to the
prodigal son, but he “discovered” religion when he was faced with kidney
disease. He told me he was inspired by his sister’s faith. He and Faye started coming
to the Cathedral with Jim and Dot Patterson. I remember praying with him for a
“miracle” kidney donor and looking for printed prayers to give him to encourage
him. Friends, our prayers were answered and a ‘miracle” was granted! I received
him into the church and I have been privileged to give him 4 of our 7
sacraments: confirmation, holy eucharist, penance and anointing of the sick! He
was already baptized and married or he would have received all of them except
ordination! We met regularly, talked about spiritual things, shared prayers and
throughout, he took his new catholic faith very seriously! It brought him joy! Yes,
it brought him joy! He brought me joy, as well, watching his spiritual life
take root and grow!
Finally, friends, the parable today, applied to Dick, is this! Just like
the father in that gospel story who loved both his sons, the good one and
the bad one, God love the old Dick and the new Dick. Dick may have
discovered religion at the end of his life, but God had been there all along - loving
him all the time – both while he was away and when he came home! Today, I
can imagine Jesus saying to him these familiar words, “Well done, good and
faithful servant, enter into the joy of your master!” ‘Enter into my joy because
you welcomed that joy into your own life and you passed that joy on into the
life of your family, your friends, your neighbors and your fellow men and
women!’
Congratulations, Dick! You made it across the finish line! Like Faye kept
saying at the hospital, we are really going to miss you, but someday we hope to
see you again! In the meantime, pray for us and we will pray for you! We say
that because he used to say the Creed with us every Sunday when we all professed
together that “we believe in the communion of saints,” which is to say that we
believe in a holy and unbroken connection between the living and the dead!
Finally, let me say this – something I try to say at every funeral.
Friends, if there are any slights, hard feelings or neglect between you and
Dick Thurman or between Dick Thurman and you, let it go! God has forgiven him!
God has forgiven you! He did his best and so did you! He is at peace and so can
you be at peace! Let it go!
Now for the test! So that you won’t flunk, I am going to give you a hint! It’s one word and it begins with an “e!” Here goes!
FATHER KNOTT: Who does God love?
CONGREGATION: Everybody!
FATHER KNOTT: Correct! You get an A+! Now, go love each other as God loves
Dick Thurman and you!
Sunday, July 21, 2024
LOVING, PROTECTING AND UNIFYING
He was a good man – a holy man no
doubt. He was especially good at building. He personally laid the bricks and
blocks on the convent, rectory, school and parish hall. He was, however, not
very good with people – especially with women in general and nuns in
particular, and not very good at preaching.
You might say he was better at pasturing sheep than pasturing people,
but we loved him anyway. Even though he told me, when I first told him I wanted
to go to the seminary, that I would never make it, he did send me a message
from his deathbed, after I finished my second year, that he had changed his
mind and thought I might make it after all. I, too, loved him anyway – loved
him enough to still remember the date of his death – January 3, 1960. He was such a big part of my childhood that
I cannot read about Jesus, the Good Shepherd, without thinking about him and his sheep. It broke his heart to give up his sheep when he got too
old to fend off the roaming dogs that slaughtered and destroyed them.
It is interesting to me that of the two words for “good” in the original Greek text are agathos and kalos. The first means “good” as in “a good person,” while the second means “good” as in “good at something.” The word for “good” in the gospel "Good Shepherd" scripture is the word for “good at.” Of course Jesus is a “good person,” but what it wants to say there is that Jesus is “good at” shepherding.
The Latin words for the “good shepherd” are “bonus pastor,” from which we get the word “pastor.” This passage is most often applied to priests and ministers who are called to be like the Good Shepherd, “pastoring” in his name. We priests and ministers are also called, like Jesus to be “good” and “good a what we do.” When we fail, we are often compared to the “hireling” shepherds who are only interested in “threatening, using and abusing” the sheep for their own benefit!
But, today, I want to apply this story to you, the spouses and parents and future spouses and parents, sitting here in front of me. You, too, are called, or will be called, to be “good shepherds” of your families. You, too, will need to be “good” and “good at” what you do. You will need to be a “good person” and “good at” being a spouse and parent.
The late Pope John Paul II’s new Catechism of the Catholic Church says, “Two sacraments are directed toward the salvation of others and, if they contribute to personal salvation, it is through service to others that they do so.” In other words, those of you called to marriage and those of us called to ordained ministry, become “good” through “being good at” what we do, you as spouses and parents, and me as an ordained minister.
We live in a world of slick temptation and bad examples. It is easy to get off track and be seduced into adopting atrociously bad behaviors simply “because everybody else is doing it.” If we are going to be “good” and good at” what we do, we must draw strength from something else than the culture around us. I have also liked the image of the “tree planted near running waters, whose leaves never fade” from Psalm 1 and the prophet Jeremiah.
“A tree planted near running water” never has to worry about hot weather and drought: its leaves stay green. No matter what is happening above ground, because its roots go down deep and taps into the water. Another psalm says “He who practices virtue and speaks honestly, he who brushes his hands free of bribes, stopping his ears and closing his eyes to evil, shall dwell on the heights and have a steady supply of food and drink.”
Jesus is that life-giving water which we should be tapped into. If
our roots go down deep and tap into Him, we can stand tall and healthy. Tapping
into his life-giving water is what
will make us “good” and “good at what we do.”
A connection to Jesus only on Sunday is like trying to fight off drought by
carrying water. If you are planted near
that stream and your roots tap into him, you never have to worry, you will
always have a “steady supply of food and drink,” it will be possible to be a
“good person,” a “good spouse,” a “good parent,” or a “good priest/minister” no
matter who else crashed and burns in today’s culture.


